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people are social animals, and no one can survive alone without the crowd.
So no one in this world will be born to like loneliness, and no one will be born to like being independent and lock themselves in their own world.
The reason why many people are lonely is often the loneliness of their own choice.
In this crowded crowd, because I couldn’t find my own belongings and like-minded people, I chose to close myself in a strange city and an environment that I was not very adaptable.
Perhaps, to a certain extent, such a choice seems to have a little escape.
However, in today's fast-paced era, the helplessness of seeking life and having to go far away cannot be broken, so "lostness" naturally becomes a normal state.
Loneliness is not necessarily a bad thing now. In fact, many things are found to be solved when you are alone, and many of the truths are also understood when you are alone.
When people are alone, a quiet environment can enhance people's thinking ability and can also diverge people's thinking to the greatest extent.
Of course, many times, it is not that we are willing to escape, but that we have to face the loneliness in this life.
The power of human beings is insignificant after all. In this world of thousands, human beings are just an embellishment, just a tiny existence.
is like dust, coming, disappearing, and not even leaving a trace.
In the face of time, we are so small. Only by accepting ourselves and choosing the lifestyle we like can we live a more relaxed life.
Many things cannot be changed with the power of individuals or a small part of human beings. For example, this loneliness in real life cannot be changed.
However, time is still moving, life is still continuing, and loneliness becomes the norm, can you stop your pace and choose to stand in place?
is obviously impossible.
In the face of time, each of us is forced to push forward, and the steps under our feet cannot stop no matter what.
Therefore, at this time, if you want to live a better life, you must know how to choose loneliness and accept loneliness.
When loneliness comes close to you for the first time, you may feel lonely because of this unexpected loneliness.
However, when you take the initiative to choose loneliness and choose to adapt to loneliness, then loneliness will be another way.
Choosing loneliness is actually a kind of happiness.
Because people are social animals, they always urgently seek a partner for themselves when they work or live so that they will not appear lonely or lonely in this bustling crowd.
And a person's life is a long time. No matter who it is, there is always a time when there is always a time when there is always a time when there is no one to accompany or help, including parents.
says that human life is a lonely journey. No one will accompany you to your birth, and no one can accompany you to the last moment of your life. Therefore, a lot of time needs to be spent alone.
At this time, you must know how to choose loneliness and accept loneliness. Only by knowing the state of loneliness and feeling the loneliness in loneliness at the beginning can you face loneliness calmly at any stage in the future.
And, choosing to be alone and loneliness is also a kind of growth and a kind of happiness.
There are too many people who are crazy because they don’t have space to be alone and feel depressed;
There are too many people who are not used to loneliness and do not accept loneliness, and eventually they are easily swallowed by loneliness and become a person with psychological problems.
But there are also many people who have sublimated their souls in silence and found a different sky because they have accepted loneliness.
can be seen that accepting loneliness and getting used to loneliness is a must-do in life and a crucial question. It can even bring earth-shaking changes to people's future.
Just like Zhou Guoping said in " Love and Loneliness ":
I am most relaxed when I am alone because I don't feel bored. It is timely and boring, and you will bear it yourself, without affecting others, and you will not need to feel uneasy.
People who enjoy loneliness have a full soul. The kind of feeling that you can enjoy yourself without being able to integrate into the group is actually really happy.
So, someone said: Being alone is a person's joy.
Born as a human being, never be afraid of the loneliness in life, and choose him boldly. That is the most precious experience given to you by the Creator.
In loneliness, you can listen well, and you can think more calmly about everything that happens in your life.
Loneliness can purify your soul, clarify your thoughts, and give you a clearer understanding...
You can bravely choose loneliness, enjoy loneliness, and think about your future in silence.
The meaning of loneliness is not to make you alone, but to create an environment for self-cultivation.
Looking at the past and present, which person at the top is not lonely, and which person with accomplishments and thoughts is famous by forming cliques and factions?
obviously does not have it. The great man is lonely because he stands at the peak, and he also stands at the peak because he chooses to be lonely.
