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Someone said that in the vast number of days, the rise and fall of the world will not be free.
The rise and fall of this world cannot be decided by people themselves. Sometimes, an accident comes over, and maybe we don’t even have the ability to resist. For example, birth, old age, sickness and death, such as natural disasters and man-made disasters.
We always feel that we can change everything and can control this long life. In the end, we were only awakened when we were bleeding when we hit our heads and we were bleeding. There were many things that we could not control.
Everyone comes to this world and has his mission. At the beginning, you didn't know what to do. Later, after experiencing vicissitudes, you gradually understood the looming trajectory of life.
of Fudan University Professor Wang Defeng said that believing in life before the age of forty is a kind of stupidity. If you don’t believe in fate after the age of forty, you don’t have enough understanding.
When we were young, we must have the spirit of "dare to venture and fight". In middle age, our youth disappeared and our energy was not good enough. We have seen the rise and fall of the world, and in the end we believed in "fate".
is a bit exaggerated. Perhaps our fate is destined at the moment we were born in this world. God, after all, it affects our future in a place we cannot see.
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The moment when I come to the world, my destiny will definitely be destined.
In this world, since there are "variables", there will definitely be "fixed numbers". It is impossible to change if we count things like this. For example, in which family we were born, who were our biological parents, and who would we meet in the future...
Let’s start with “ native family ”. In your opinion, in which family a person was born, does it matter whether it is important?
Some people were born in the city center of Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, while others were born in remote small rural areas. In fact, this is the gap in a person's life. Perhaps, the latter will never surpass the former even if they fight for a lifetime.
Some young and energetic novices in the workplace thought that they would change their destiny after graduating from college. Who knows that they can’t afford a house in big cities, and their salary is only 5,000 or 6,000. When I was 30 years old, I could only lower my proud head and return to my hometown.
once had such a broad-minded person who said with emotion: "Only by yourself, you really can't change the fate of your original family. It's really a mess when you come and leave in shame."
Why can't they change their destiny? Because the families born are different, the assets they can have will be different the day after tomorrow.
Someone has a car and a house as soon as he was born, and his assets were tens of millions. However, he was born in a remote countryside, and perhaps he could not earn a million in his life even if he struggled for a lifetime. Isn’t this the biggest gap between people?
So, "family origin theory" exists and is difficult to change.
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God will affect your energy in places you can't see.
The famous physicist Yang Zhenning said that if there is a creator, then I think there is one, because the structure of the whole world is not accidental.
After all, everything about is related to "natural rules". What we think of as God is just a natural rule. The sun rises and the moon sinks, the tide rises and falls, the day and night change, and the four seasons rotate. Which one is not the natural rule of the universe?
So, natural rules affect the development of the earth and also affect the destiny of everyone.
How big a career you can achieve and how great a fame you achieve is not completely controlled by you. All you can do is just "do your best". What is the result, there is another way to say.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang said that all the choices of are correct, everything is related to the blessings of the parties involved.If you are lucky, then no matter how you choose, it will be right. If you are not lucky, then no matter how you make a choice, it is all wrong.
In other words, some people will definitely achieve great fame and fortune, so they will naturally endure hardships, meet noble people, seize opportunities, and achieve extraordinary results.
, let’s look at Liu Bang , look at Sima Yi , then you will understand. People who are better than them gradually left. In the end, if they are still alive, they will seize the world and achieve something. Small matters are decided by the person. Major events will be affected by natural rules.
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Everything is fate, no one can do anything.
There is a poem that says: "Three inches of energy are used in a thousand ways, and everything will stop once it is impermanent."
When we are still alive, we can naturally pursue the dream in our hearts, and do whatever we say and do. However, once is out of power and the oil is exhausted, then we are really powerless.
There is such a boss who achieved extraordinary achievements when he was young and earned tens of millions of dollars. At that time, he thought that he was amazing and capable, so he was very arrogant.
When I was 50 years old, the boss suddenly got sick and went to the hospital. He also underwent a major operation and went around at the gates of hell. The moment he woke up, he sighed that life was so fragile.
Later, he said this: "When I was young, everyone felt that they were great. When the disease came, you understood what fate was and couldn't help yourself. To put it bluntly, I would have left without the blessing of fate."
Just imagine, even successful people who have earned tens of millions cannot fully grasp their destiny, so how can they be ordinary people?
Regarding fate, The well-known law professor Luo Xiang said that if it were not for the protection of fate, you would have been gone long ago. All your dreams and all your lofty plans for life will disappear and be a joke.
people, cherish every day they live. When facing fate, don’t be anxious or arrogant, just be more grateful. People can last forever because they are grateful and humble.
text/Shushan Youlu
