I don’t know if there is such a type of person around you, and you always shame others?
In life, there are always some people who refuse to admit the excellence of others, and these people are often people around you. They can’t stand others’ lives better than themselves. They always like to say that they are trying to step on others and make themselves balanced.
Many times a person will not compare himself with those who are in the clouds, but will be jealous of those around him who live better than himself.
People who are shameful of others are generally based on the equal resources of both parties or that they are slightly stronger than each other. Once the other party has any place to surpass themselves, their friendship will come to an end.
They do not think about catching up with others through their own efforts, but instead radically exclude and sarcasm, even set up obstacles for the other party, and try their best to suppress the damage. Their psychology is distorted.
There are many evils in human nature. The most fatal thing is this: they can’t stand the good of the people around them. They would rather see the good of the people who are far away than themselves, but they would not tolerate the people around them being better than themselves. If they are far away from themselves, they would envy and admire, and those who are close to themselves, or those who are slightly better than themselves, and they would be jealous and hatred.
There are not many people in this world who really look forward to your goodness, but there are many people who can’t stand you.
Living in a group that is far inferior to you, and living in a group that is worse than you, it is obvious that the latter will be more beneficial to you, because you can always take advantage of the situation and even be carried forward with progress.
There are rich people around you, which is better than the poor people around you. The person who can pull you at critical moments must be the people around you who are familiar with you.
However, many people would rather live in a group that is inferior to them, rather be implicated, rather be dragged down, rather than stomp each other than see the people around them prosper.
As the saying goes, beggars will not be jealous of millions of people, but they will definitely be jealous of beggars with higher incomes. I hope you live a good life, it is true, but I hope you live a good life, it is true. For example: Your friend fails the exam and you feel bad, and your friend first place in the exam and your feeling worse.
All the pain of people is essentially anger at their own incompetence, which is the sorrow of many people.
Jealousy is the devil in the heart. Half of human pressure comes from life and half from comparison.
In fact, jealousy itself is a kind of look up, and the essence of jealousy is "admitting defeat".
This is the pattern of many villains. Such people can be far away when they can, and they can be far away when they can be far away.
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