Have you tried something that you often give up halfway if you want to do something?
This is not your fault, it is just our human nature. After all, people are "seeking profit and avoiding harm". Since hard work is a kind of "harm" to us, it naturally drives us to avoid it.
The problem is, what if you really want to do something? It’s like learning a new skill, breaking old circles, getting to know new objects, or going to a strange city to work hard for the future, etc. These are not something you can succeed by sitting down and thinking silently.
What should I do? I am lazy, but I want to do things. Is there such a good thing in this world?
certainly does not, but you can set up an efficient "success cycle" to drive your progress, thus forming a snowball effect.
No matter what you are trying to accomplish in life, the first step to achieving the results you want is the most difficult.
Just like if you want to shoot a short video to earn traffic fees, you may be stuck in the first step, don’t know how to shoot, don’t know how to edit, don’t know how to conceive a script, don’t know how to perform, etc., you need to face many problems that you have never encountered before.
When you think of these problems, you back down and then return to your comfort zone. However, if you can establish a "success cycle", things will become easier once you make a breakthrough.
After all, after you shoot the first short video, you have experience and you have explored everything, and your brain will naturally not be so resistant, so you can shoot the second and third short videos.
The same thing can happen in every area of your life. The first step to achieving whatever goal you want is the most challenging and difficult. But once you succeed in some success, things will become easy.
This is the function of the momentum principle.
Newton's first law points out that objects in motion remain motion, and still objects will remain stationary.
The same principle applies to your goals, career and life. If you are moving forward and making progress, you may keep reaping rewards and keep moving forward.
On the other hand, if you get stuck, there is a good chance that you will be stuck all the time and have nowhere to go. Unless you do something and put in serious effort, things will remain the same.
This is why some people become more prosperous and prosperous the more they are, while some people become lazy and unlucky.
With this, I hope you understand the necessity of change, improvement and growth.
How does success work
American motivational master, Anthony Robin , although I have said a lot of useful and useless chicken soup, there is one sentence that I still agree with.
He said that each of us has certain beliefs and certain potential. Because of what we choose to believe, we act according to our potential.
For example, if you don’t believe that you can learn a certain skill, then all your next words and deeds will develop around this belief. Whenever you encounter difficulties, you will say to yourself: I have said everything, I can’t learn this.
When this negative confirmation is recognized by your brain one by one, yes, you can no longer learn to master this skill well - even if you were the original one, you can indeed return after learning.
When we take action and do something, we get the result. Whether it is a good result, a bad result, or a no result, it is a result. Our results will once again affect our beliefs.
This is the so-called "success cycle"! As shown in the figure below.
So, how does this success cycle affect our actions?
1. Build your belief system
During our growth process, we are raised or cultivated in some way, so that we form a specific set of beliefs within us.
We believe there are some things we can do.We also believe that there are some things we cannot do. Our beliefs have greatly influenced the way we live.
A very successful person like Musk often spreads a message. He believes that he has the potential to change the human lifestyle, and he believes that colonizing Mars is possible.
However, for most of us, we don't believe that going to the moon can be like traveling leisurely, let alone colonizing Mars.
It is this different belief that creates different ways of behavior. No matter what you choose to believe, you will do and act in some way.
Ask yourself, when you want to do something, you can't do it. Do you feel that you really don't have the ability, or do you feel that you can't do it?
I have a reader who is nearly forty years old. He wants to learn PS and edit photos of his children. When asked how I learned, I told him the learning process. He said he didn't know if he could learn it.
I said, "If you believe that you can learn it yourself, you can learn it. If your belief is firm enough, you can learn it."
Then he followed my method and learned it for three months, and then I told him that he would use the PS skills he learned to make a work. At the beginning, he could copy it and then create it.
I didn’t expect that the effect he made surprised me, it was the picture on the bottom right! Isn’t this just learning? Isn’t this the result of changing beliefs?
So, your actions will always be synchronized with your beliefs.
2. Getting your potential
We know we all have unlimited potential and we are destined to achieve great success. Ask yourself this question:
"What is human potential?"
The answer is unlimited.
No matter what your situation and situation are, we all have the same unlimited potential that can make positive changes and impacts in life.
problem is that most people are not realizing their true potential.
Imagine how you spent last year. Have you tried your best? Do the results you get reflect your potential?
If you set the same goals this year as last year, then it shows some of your situation; you are not experiencing your potential and are not doing your best. That's why you have to reset your goals.
Our beliefs determine our potential. Our potential will determine what we do in life.
Many times, you don’t know what your potential is - unless you explore through actions. When you practice, you will gradually discover that what you think is not good at is so good at; things you think are unmatched can be mastered.
Since that's the case, are you still afraid that you have no potential?
3. The best way to explore your potential is to try everything.
What you want to do and what you want to learn, give yourself a month or two to try. Even if you can't become a master, what you learn will help you open up the paths in other fields and allow you to get there faster.
Your potential will affect your actions. When you think you have no potential to do anything, you will be too lazy to act and want to do nothing.
On the contrary, if you believe that you are really destined to be huge success and that whatever business you risk will turn into gold, believe me, you will start a business and achieve brilliant success at all costs.
The problem is that most people don't really believe in themselves. They say they want to succeed, they believe they can do it, however, what they say and what they really believe are often two different things.
Most of us have not taken enough action to achieve our dreams because we don't really believe we can succeed. This affects our potential and thus our actions.
is a simple example. If you believe that you will win the lottery, will you buy it today? Of course, you will, after all, you will win the jackpot! And there is nothing to stop you from buying tickets, right?
In turn, if you don't believe you have a chance to win, you won't bother buying tickets. After all, you don't want to do useless work.
The problem is that in this world, not everything can be 100% guaranteed, so it becomes very important to believe what you believe and then take action.
It all starts with what you believe. Therefore, your beliefs will affect your behavior.
Elon Musk really believes that interstellar travel is possible, and he is sure that living on Mars is possible. That's why he acted.
The same goes for your dreams and goals. When you don't believe you can achieve them, you will never do anything to them.
So if you live the same life over and over again, longing for your dream life but you have not made progress, check your belief system.
The things that prevent you from getting the success you want and living the life you want are often yourself.
4. You get the result
After you take some form of action, you will receive a transcript, i.e. your result.
No matter if you succeed, fail, or get no results, this is still a result you must accept.
So at this time you should pay attention: the results you get will in turn affect your beliefs.
For example, when I was in middle school, I had good grades in English, which made me believe that I was good in English and I had a talent for English.
The result is that my English score is better, and this result makes me more convinced that I am good at English.
This is a loop, have you seen it?
If you make a wrong decision in stock investment and lose most of your money there, this may lead you to believe that stock investment is a lie or that you don't have the requirements to be a good investor at all.
When you build an online business but don't succeed, it may lead you to believe that you don't have the skills or the internet business simply won't work.
Your results will affect your beliefs. Your beliefs will affect your potential, which determines your actions. Once again, your behavior will lead to the results you get.
This is how successful works. This is why successful people can continue to achieve greater success, and why unsuccessful people continue to stay in negative lives.
This is all a loop!
If you are in a negative and negative cycle now, what you have to do is to break this cycle with good things and let yourself enter a new cycle. Only the new loop circle of
can make you feel the feeling of "rebirth", and you will become more active because of this.
Ask yourself, how does your current loop affect you?
successfully nurtures more success
So, now you understand how the so-called success cycle works.
Beliefs - Potential - Action - Results
This is an example of how the success cycle is bad for you :
Bad beliefs - Low potential - Less or no action - Less or no result - Worse beliefs - Even lower potential - Even less action - Failed
Everything affects and affects each other like a chain ring. Here is a great example of how the success cycle works for you :
What do you believe in - you have potential, maybe you can do - you put in some effort - you have achieved small positive results - have confidence and build stronger beliefs - get more potential - take more action - get even better results - continue to achieve greater success.
The most important question you should ask yourself now is: "How can I make the success cycle good for me?"
You can start from the following two points:
1. Change from small things, create new beliefs, and build a new loop
Change is necessary, but this does not mean that you should do everything at once. You can always start small and grow.
Take some small actions on what you want to do, which will bring you positive results . When you receive positive results and see small successes, you gain confidence and motivation.
When you know the possibilities you can do, it will naturally strengthen and build your belief system, driving you to take more actions.
2, get better growth through continuous improvement
When you first start a new thing, the learning curve is very steep and everything seems to be difficult for you.
However, as you learn, grow and do more things, things become easier and you can produce better results.
This is how successful people achieve extraordinary achievements in their lives. They are committed to continuous and endless improvement. They try their best to learn, improve and develop their skills.
The only way to achieve greater success in life is through growth and progress. If you don't work hard to improve yourself, you can't produce better results.
Here is what you need to know: you are not getting what you want. You get what kind of person you become.
In other words, your success is consistent with who you are. When you become a person worthy of success, success will come naturally to you.
