As the saying goes: has a ruler to speak, and is a slander and a moderate . The right way to speak is the right way to be a person.
often listen to the old generation's words, "Don't take it over and say it, think it first" .
communicate with others in life, and do not speak credibly. You should develop the good habit of thinking first and then speaking.
Some words are hidden in your heart and cannot be said. These "words hidden in the heart" are not just for the purpose of keeping "blessing".
is to avoid embarrassment and cause trouble.
When talking to others, talk less about these three things, and cause and effect will not forgive others!
1. The secret in the heart
The ancients said: "Safeguard your mouth as a bottle, be as sincere as you want, you would rather let me down than let others down."
Don't open your mouth as easily as the bottle mouth, and be always on guard like the city defense.
would rather let others let me down than let myself down.
You should think twice before doing things, and first of all, don’t go against your conscience.
Keep your mouth guarding your heart. The quietest people in a group are often the most powerful.
Keep your mouth guarding your heart, and the tongue is the seedling of the heart. When a person stops talking, the heart is peaceful, and a quiet person is stronger.
2. The old past
The ancients said, "A hero does not mention the courage of the past, and the plum blossoms do not mention the embroidery of the previous life."
The hero does not mention his courage in the past, which means: "A true hero will not boast about how brave he was before in front of people.
In other words, a true successful person does not boast about his past achievements. He (she) can always maintain a humble attitude and a enterprising spirit to move forward forever.
Because a hero is ashamed of showing off and bravery and fighting ruthlessness. A hero just does what he thinks he should do. The second half of
uses metaphor to explain: embroidery is plum blossom, and if he does not embroider, it is also plum blossom. , Embroidery and not embroidery are both natural.
If you want to prove your strength, don’t talk nonsense. It’s better to embroider plum blossoms in real combat so that people can see the truth.
means that the past is over. You don’t have to mention the past or immerse yourself in the past merits in front of others, but you must keep moving forward and make progress.
3. Your own grades
The more you show off, the more you lose something.
Xun You, avoid disasters and pay attention to covering up the edge.
always understand "Great achievements should not shock the master, and the edge should not be too sharp" .
In this world, people who are better than you Too many, exaggerating yourself and showing off yourself without any bottom line will only attract disgust, even jealousy and cruelty from others, and thus bring disaster to yourself.
The earth becomes a sea, and the person becomes a king. The better a person, the more you know how to hide your sharpness.
Wise people never talk about achievements. There is a proverb that says:
"The heaven is high, the earth is thick, and taking all things as a reference, you can see your own shortcomings. ”
Although the world does not boast about how tall and thick they are, there is no need for words. The vastness of the world is obvious to all.
A truly powerful person has never been revealed without showing off, he does not speak bitterly, and he does not speak happily.
