html It was a little cold for 6 days, but to be precise, it was a little cold. I ran out in a windbreaker that I had not buttoned. As soon as I got off the stairs, I looked up and the clouds in the sky hung brightly at the top of the building, as if they were thrown down in the arms of the blue sky. It was such a bright and cold night. I wrapped my clothes tightly and walked out of the community.
Youlan's WeChat rang driply, and then her smiling and angry voice flowed around me like a stream. There were a lot of vivid notes beating during my trip. She said I responded, as if I was walking together on the tree-shaded road outside my community. The wind blew on my face and blew over my body. I didn't feel a hint of coldness. I was a little lonely alone, and I was thinking about leaving this heavy sorrow. Okay, Youlan is here, I'm fine. Although we are eight or nine years apart in age, we have no communication barriers in our relationship since we met. We talk and laugh, dare to be angry and scold, and look like two ignorant students.
This is a daily episode between Youlan and me after dinner yesterday. I remembered some things that happened to me from morning to night today, and there seemed to be a thread in the trivial matter. One day I recalled that my mood was extremely stable. I whispered softly in the morning and felt more gentle as a mother. I screamed the child out of the bed. Instead of shouting that he was going to be late as before, he got obedient. I continued to say that you recite the book when you cook for a while. He went upstairs and went out of the balcony to recite the book. When it was time to dinner, he asked him to have dinner. He was still very obedient. I chatted with him at the dinner table. Yan Yuese and I were in a stable mood. After dinner, I carried my schoolbag and said hello to me. I took it to my door and went downstairs to school.
I wash the pot and mop the floor, feed the cat, shovel the poop, clean it up and wash my hands and practice writing. Time flows quietly like water, and my heart feels sad from time to time. The concentration will make me feel a little hot and my nose will be sore, and I want to cry and laugh. Why should I restrain myself at home? Just laugh when I laugh, just cry when I cry. Nietzsche also wrote in "The So Say of Chakatustra":
"Why do you feel shy? Smile like a child and laugh happily, you will forget those worries, and your joy can also infect the people around you."
If you laugh or laugh shyly, why don't you cry shyly? This reminded me of He He in the unit. Once someone messed with her. The staff on duty in our unit were eating in the cafeteria. She and her leader suddenly started crying when they toasted the leader. Tears fell down with grievance, which made the leader very embarrassed. Everyone looked a little awkward, and the situation was a little stiff. I sat opposite her and stared at her, but I secretly applauded in my heart, crying, and continuing to cry. Who dared to cry on such an occasion? Who made them know who was unhappy and provoked her? When they were unhappy, they cried and couldn't control themselves. Later I asked He He why he cried, and she even said angrily who made the leader feel unpleasant. I held her shoulders and pinched her pissy face and gave her a thumbs up! He He is such a guy who can't be shy and cry or laugh. I have been hiding with her. There are a lot of laughter left on the mountain road in front of the unit. I feel very happy to think about it.
can we say that we are pests in the eyes of people in the unit. Isn’t it that the children’s songs are very popular? “We are pests, we are pests…”
Philosopher Nietzsche also encouraged us to be straightforward and joyful people. Why don’t we be straightforward and joyful? The reason why Youlan and I were able to have a happy relationship with He Hei from my unit was that we were similar in nature and had similar qi. Yesterday, I was not chatting with Youlan, nor was I laughing relaxed and freely, but I would definitely make myself worried for a few times. I would not have a harmonious atmosphere with my son today. People should learn to adjust their emotions and release their burdens.
In fact, it is not difficult for us to find that those people who are honest always have more friends and more appealing than others. They are always willing to share their joy with others, and for others and themselves, which is a very meaningful thing. How to do it specifically:
1. Let yourself be happy first.
When you wake up every morning, you can hint yourself like this: "Today will be a wonderful day! Smile!" and let this self-motivation deeply into your subconscious mind. When you are in a bad mood at work in your life, this subconscious will guide you to take enthusiastic actions, turn negative to positive, and rejuvenate your vitality.
2. Express your enthusiasm sincerely.
We should not expect that an indifferent attitude will infect others. Indifference can only indifference people's hearts. Passion and happiness are a pair of conjoined babies . When the other person feels your enthusiasm, he will naturally open his heart to you. He is not wary of it, and he will also sense your enthusiasm and will gradually convey his emotions to you.
3. Humor
Humor is a special emotional expression and a hand-appropriate tool for people to adapt to the environment. Having a sense of humor can keep people positive and optimistic about life. Many seemingly troublesome things can often be dealt with in humorous ways, which can often make people's unpleasant emotions disappear and become relaxed and interesting immediately.
4. Make your smile lively.
In fact, smile is an innate instinct of human beings. Unfortunately, this instinct is often stranded, closed or even forgotten by people for various reasons. If you recall carefully, there are really many people around you who can't laugh. Of course there are many reasons for not laughing, such as complicated and repetitive routines, work pressure given by boss leaders, unfriendly attitudes of colleagues, discord between husband and wife, rebellious parent-child relationships and tensions in children, etc., or in a strange environment, you don’t want to smile or laugh far-fetchedly.
If your smile can be more lively, it will better show your sincerity and happiness.
When you say "thank you" to others, be sincere.
The "good morning" you said should make people feel very comfortable.
What you said "congratulations" must come from the heart.
The tone of your words when you say "How are you?" should be full of deep care.
Once your words can naturally permeate sincere emotions, you have the ability to attract attention. Life is short, and people are willing to live happily and actively.
Therefore, what we should do is work with a smile, socialize with a smile, face friends with a smile, infect family, infect colleagues, infect friends with happiness and happiness... Enjoy the sweetness and warmth of life, stay away from all unhappy emotions, give family happiness, give colleagues happiness, and give society happiness, and believe you will have a better life.
