The most meaningful way for people to live in their lives is to live out themselves.
We live not for anyone, but for ourselves. We come to this world not to cater to others but to please ourselves and live out ourselves.
Everyone’s life is different, we must live our own life.
There are no two identical people in this world, nor two identical leaves, so everyone is unique and has a different life.
share five ways to live out one’s own life. I hope we can all live out one’s own life and have a more ideal life.
1, enhance self-worth.
I am born with a talent that will be useful. Everyone has its meaning.
This world is so big and there are so many people, there are lazy people, diligent people, excellent people, and self-degenerate people, but I hope we can be that excellent people.
Only excellent people can constantly improve themselves, improve themselves, constantly improve their self, constantly improve their self, and become a better self and live out their own life.
In life, many of us have soulless people. Life is counting as one day, and we never pursue a better life. In my opinion, the greatest meaning of a person in this life is to live out oneself, constantly explore the true meaning of life, and constantly pursue a higher life.
2. Follow your heart and please yourself.
Everyone should live out their own lives, learn to please themselves, follow their hearts, and take good care of their feelings. This way, life is more meaningful and happier.
Born as human beings, we enjoy autonomy, we can choose to live our own life well, and choose the path we will take in the future. We do not have to live in the expectations of our parents, and we do not have to choose the path we will follow our parents' instructions.
If you want to live out yourself, you must learn to take care of your inner wishes and choose the way you like to spend your life.
Especially when we are adults, when filling out college applications, we can follow our hearts instead of signing up for a major that we don’t like because our parents say which major is good.
Filling out college application is an important turning point in life. It directly affects your studies and your future. Therefore, following your inner thoughts can better please yourself and live out yourself.
3. Don’t live in the eyes of others and don’t compare.
In life, many of us are accustomed to living in the eyes of others, hoping that we can get more recognition from others, hoping that we can live like others, constantly cater to others, and ultimately make ourselves physically and mentally exhausted.
We live in order to live out ourselves, not to live like others, and not to live in the eyes of others.
In addition, don't compare blindly.
There are many such people around you. Seeing other people's children grow taller and have good academic performance, but their children are extremely naughty and do not fall in love with school. If they have poor academic performance, they will be heartbroken and feel depressed.
Or you may see that others have a house and a car, but you still have no house or car, or even have a debt, and then you start to sigh that your fate is bad, and you begin to degenerate and think that you are inferior to others in everything.
This is how life is. Everyone likes comparison and hopes to live better than others. However, this kind of life that compares over and over is very tiring, so tired you can't breathe.
In fact, you don’t have to do this. Learn to be open-minded and accept your life calmly. I think life will be more comfortable and happy.
4. Forget the pain.
There are too many unsatisfactory facts in life. Everyone will experience ups and downs. When they go through hardships, there will always be one or two unbearable experiences. However, these experiences bring us only the repeated hurt and grief.
And a good life should not be like this. You should not just live in the past and in grief. People must learn to forget pain and unpleasant things so that they can truly be happy in their hearts.
If a person is worried about the pain of the past, his life will not be happy and cannot live out himself. He will only let the pain of the past torture himself, and will never be able to live a better life.
In fact, life is not easy. We should learn to forget the pain and move forward bravely.
Just like Lin Qingxuan said: people should also develop the ability to reshape wounds like pearl shells , transform them into trauma of life, and turn them into beautiful pearls.
5. Keep yourself healthy.
Health is the basics of everything, without health, there is nothing.
Especially in the year of the epidemic, we should understand the importance of physical health. We must take time to exercise at any time and do some exercise appropriately to enhance our resistance while maintaining a normal function.
In this way, we must also control our mouths and not eat some junk food that is not good for our health because of greed.
Another more important point is not to stay up late.
With the rapid development of today, many people are busy with work or want to check their phones after get off work, and are reluctant to go to bed in the early morning at night and often stay up late, which will cause harm to their bodies over time.
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July little raindrops, a young man in 1994, an extremely sensitive but longing for rationality, loves life.
