text/Moran
everyone says that the older you are, the more anxious you are, especially when you are middle-aged, you have great responsibilities and have more things to bear, which leads to many people not having a good life.
A large part of the reason why a person suffers and is troubled is the people and things around him.
is constantly consuming your own life because of the trivialities of life, resulting in internal consumption.
So when people reach middle age, they must learn to adjust themselves and avoid unnecessary interpersonal relationships.
For these people who consume you, stay away as soon as possible.
People who deny you from the beginning
believe that many times, we will hear a lot of voices around us, with doubts, denials, and belittlements from you.
Those people are not doing well themselves and cannot stand others in their own good life. They make you suspicious by blindly attacking them.
For those who deny you, they don’t know much about you, nor do they know what kind of person you are, just blindly deny you. Such people will only make you fall into anxiety.
You should know that life is created by oneself, not by living in the eyes of others.
Those who are used to denying and hitting you will only make you depressed, and will become less and less trusting of yourself, causing you to get worse and worse.
The person who denies you is just making you suspicious without any effort. Such a person is not worth your attention.
Our life is to get rid of others' expectations and find our true self, rather than live in the mouths of others.
At any time, we must pay attention to ourselves and stay awake. Don’t deny ourselves just because of a word from others.
For those who deny you, don’t bewitched by them. You must love yourself and follow your heart.
People who just complain to you
say that you will have a life like that when you are with.
Many times, the people around you have a great influence on you. We live in this world and try to maintain a good attitude so that our lives will get better and better.
People who just complain to you will only pass on negative energy to you. If you transfer bad emotions to you, you will also be affected by emotions, which will cause a series of chain reactions.
complain occasionally, it’s nothing to vent your emotions, but long-term complaints will affect your life.
We must always maintain a positive attitude so that we can have a good mood to face life and you will also feel good.
On the contrary, when you are with people who are used to complaining, your life will be dark, and you will be filled with bad emotions, and you will not be able to live a good life at all.
So, try to be with sunny and positive people, as this will also make you more confident.
Accustomed to comparing, people who just want to win
I always think that it is good to have a motivated and win mentality.
But life also requires the courage to face failure. Those who only know how to compare and ignore the most important things are the least worth it.
Everyone is actually unique. There is really no need to compare, there is no need to do everything like others.
Some lives are not suitable for you, and you may not necessarily be happy even if you reach the same level. Life is the best only for you.
A lot of pain in life comes from blind comparison and forgetting what kind of life you want.
The satisfaction brought by face is really unnecessary. The more vanity you are, the more painful you will live. On the contrary, being yourself and following your own pace is the most comfortable.
Only when people follow their hearts and are not influenced by others can they feel the beauty of life.
At any time, don’t compare with others, and don’t just think about winning. Finding what really suits you is the most important thing.
Summary:
People’s lives are not long in nature. When they reach middle age, they should find themselves, rather than live in other people’s world.
Life is your own, and being happy is the most important thing.
Never affect your life because of others, and let yourself fall into trouble. It is not worth it.
