Children are growing up day by day, but parents are getting older day by day. There were more and more wrinkles at the corners of the eyes, and the white hair quietly climbed up to the head, and the body gradually became thinner. Time flies, like a flash of time, it has been over 50 years since its turn. Looking back on the journey we came, how many hardships and how much bitterness we have suffered, women have tears to shed, men swallow their teeth, and who will they tell them about their grievances? I have worked hard for half my life, for my career, for my family, for my children, and for my life, but I have never been for myself!
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The old saying goes, "Not confused at forty, but know the destiny of heaven." Living to the age of fifty, you have already seen through the things in this world, and you can know the destiny of heaven.
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60. People born in the 1970s are two very hard generations. They couldn't rely on their parents when they were young. They basically had many brothers and sisters at home. The parents couldn't control them. They gave birth to children just to increase labor. They had to start working from an early age, and their education level was not high enough. They had to work outside at a young age. The family cannot be trusted, it can only depend on yourself.
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After getting married and having children, you have to raise children again. Just as the national family planning policy , you can't have too many children and have no labor. As children grow up, they have to start going to school. From high school to college, they have to pay a lot of money every year. They can only earn money on their own to support their family. It is really not easy to work hard until they are fifty years old. So, that generation of people could only fight for themselves before they were fifty.
50 years old, whether it is for women or men, it is a watershed in life. Most women complete the important task of taking care of their husbands and children at the age of 50 and live as themselves; men are already in their prime at this age and stand at the highest point of the life curve.
50 years old and strive for children
Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. After the age of 50, most people's jobs have remained fixed, and their children have grown up, maybe they are still in school, maybe they have started a job, or they have started a family and a career, and they have all taken up grandchildren.
50 years old, children have the ability and can still be more relaxed. Children are very average, and I have to work as usual. Children are incompetent and I have to worry about how they are doing. This is a true portrayal of many Chinese families. On the other hand, my children are incompetent, and I guess they are very angry. Not only are they blind, but they also have to work hard to support their old age and cannot count on them.
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As the saying goes, " filial piety is the first of all virtues ". So another thing is to see whether the children are filial or not. Even if some children are capable, their parents will not get any benefits. I don’t go home all year round and I don’t have a phone call at all times. Even if I have the ability, it’s useless. Although some children have average incomes, they are very filial and care about their parents. They often go home to check when they live outside, give some things to their parents, and help them with some work. Even if their children are of average ability, their parents still like them very much.
So after the age of 50, we are competing for children, and we are competing for two aspects. You can see if there is one or another, and you can see if you are very filial. If you have both aspects, your parents will probably wake up from laughing in their dreams.
In general, the saying "Fight yourself before the age of 50, and fight for your children after the age of 50" is a true portrayal of many people. This is not only a reaction of an era, but also a transition of the era. People in the 1960s and 1970s, connecting the past and the future, shouldering the important tasks of their family and country on their shoulders, which deserve our respect! Like and follow the views that you agree with
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