Whether it is love, friendship, or family, what life requires, we are just looking for a comfortable lifestyle.
Maybe at the beginning, we will walk on the paths that others have walked, listen to the lessons left by others, train ourselves with other people's standards, let us integrate into more circles, and try more ways. We think we can enjoy such a life, but in the end we are overwhelmed by such a life.
There are many things that seem to be icing on the cake, but in fact they are just a burden.
In fact, the best way to live in life is nothing more than these two words: simple.
01: Gains and losses are conserved, don’t be too obsessed
There is a saying: "Blessings go, blessings come, fortunes are dispersed, luck gathers."
The gains and losses in life are conserved in the end. What we lose will definitely return in another way, and what we get must have paid some price.
Sometimes we may lament that we live a life that we don’t like, sometimes we will suffer from pain that we have given up what we shouldn’t have given up. Facing the pain of the past and the mistakes of the past, we always find it difficult to let go, so we trap ourselves in the past with our own hands.
In fact, life gains and losses will be conserved in the end, and we really don’t have to be too persistent.
The past has become the past, so there is no need to move them into their current life, there is no need to let their existence be real and make the original simple life mess.
A person’s time and energy are limited. If you cannot put important things first, then your life will not be as you want.
In a chaotic world, we may change our life trajectory again and again, but remember that every change is just to make ourselves live a better life, not to make ourselves obsessed with the past.
02: Simple, it is to walk forward step by step
Russell In the book " Road to Happiness ", he wrote a well digging worker. He was ignorant and worked in the dark well all day long. He was the lowest class of society.
Regularly speaking, such a person will not feel happy, but he did not expect that he would live a particularly happy life, full of happiness all day long. Even though he was doing the most tiring and dirtiest work, he still had no complaints or felt pain.
His definition of happiness is very simple. He will not blindly compare it with others, but will only focus on his own affairs. He is often overjoyed by successfully digging a well.
He knew that he was walking forward and he was pursuing happiness step by step. Even if there were huge temptations outside, he could still see his position and stick to his original aspirations.
Life is full of temptations, and if you are not careful, you will easily fall into the trap of temptation. Only those who pursue a simple life can stick to their original intentions.
is simple, it is to walk your own life path step by step.
03: The best way to live is to simply
Many things will happen in people's life and meet many people. However, not everything will go well, not if some people are worthy of kindness.
encounters certain things just to hit us, to tempt us, to push us into the abyss, and to meet certain people just to educate us not to trust anyone, to let us understand the coldness of the world.
All situations in life are for us to grow, not to make us suffer, not to make us persistent.
Not everything is worth remembering, not everyone is worth remembering.
We don’t need to be perfect in everything, nor do we need to be the ideal person for others. We just need to live as we want, and just achieve ourselves.
The best way to live in life is to be simple.
Take some things lightly, let go of some people, and pursue true happiness in ordinary days.
Poet Bai Luomei said:
"A person, a book, a cup of tea, a curtain of dreams. Sometimes, loneliness is like this, and only at this moment can the world be so calm."
In the future, don't lose yourself.
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