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Some people will feel that society is dark, people's hearts are sinister, and they are in society with traps and crises step by step, and human nature is like a white cloud and a green dog...
There will always be people who are disappointed in life and society, but in fact, the warmth in society is always there, and there are always more good people than bad people.
When you encounter a low point in your life, when you are at a loss, there will always be someone to pull you. Maybe it won’t help you too much, but at least it will help you breathe a sigh of relief and rekindle hope.
people have the most important thing to be grateful, and the grace of a drop of water will be repaid with a spring of water.
Gratitude is a noble character of human beings. Everyone gives love and everyone knows gratitude. Then the sunshine will truly spread throughout the earth, society will have no dark corners, and life will no longer have those difficulties and hardships.
Remembering the kindness of others is something that everyone should do.
Although, many times, others help you not to seek your reward, but to do it with your means.
But don’t think it’s natural for the other party to help you. Only those who know how to be grateful can gain more beauty.
Of course, there are also skills in how to be grateful and how to repay.
Repaying kindness is the basic morality of being a human being, especially for others who help you importantly, how to repay you has become a question that should be considered.
The debt of favor is difficult to repay and must be paid. The best way to return others' efforts, but it does not seem utilitarian.
Someone has helped you a lot, the best way to return is like this.
Remember the kindness and always be grateful to
Repaying kindness, you must first remember the kindness of others and always remember the other party’s previous favors.
should be reflected in daily interactions. The benefactor needs to be respected, but there is no need to be too deliberate.
From a reasonable point of view, we should also be more tolerant of the other person. After all, it will help you a lot and save you a lot of things. You cannot be an ungrateful wolf. If others help you, they will forget it. Remember the kindness in your heart.
Ingratitude is despised by the world, which is a great denial and belittlement of a person.
As long as a person is labeled as "ungrateful", his character will not be recognized.
undoubtedly, this is disastrous for a person's social relationships and cannot be ungrateful under any circumstances.
Only by remembering kindness in your heart can you repay something.
people have selfish mentality and like to get but are unwilling to lose. This is subconscious.
For example, if you ask someone to borrow money from them, you will speak out if you try your best. When others ask you to borrow money from them, even if the relationship is good, you will subconsciously hesitate.
Despite this, you cannot repay others' kindness, but you must keep it in mind and be prepared for rewards at all times.
When the other party is in trouble, when you go all out
One person has helped you a lot, it may be to help you overcome a difficult situation. The other party is an important support for you when fighting the predicament. This kind of kindness is actually the most difficult to pay off.
, but human debt is not like the amount of interest transactions, there will always be a day when you pay it off.
Once a favor is owed to someone, there will always be a feeling of owing others. This cannot be solved by a meal and a drink, but what it needs more is opportunities.
Life in the world is never alone. There are friends and relatives. Everyone helps each other and fights against the various hardships brought by life.
When I am in trouble, others lend a helping hand and owe a considerable debt of favor. When the other party is in trouble, it is a good time to repay kindness.
Don’t care about how much you have paid. You should care about the other party’s difficulties and do your best to help.
Don’t slack off if you can help, and don’t shirk what you can do. You should convey from the heart that you want to help, are willing to help, and are able to help.
It is difficult to repay the debt of favors, and opportunities are hard to come by. It is best to pay off the favors at one time.
Don’t measure favor by money
Money is constantly pursued by the world. Everyone needs money and longs for money.
Live in today's society. It is absolutely impossible to have money without money, but money is not omnipotent. You can't buy time and love.
Friends cannot be exchanged for money. You cannot use money to measure favors. When the other party is poor and destitute, he can still take out a hundred yuan to lend you. That is a great kindness. Money numbers cannot represent favors.
Someone has helped you a lot. You can’t just send a sum of money directly. After everyone clears the money, wouldn’t it be a transaction?
Others are willing to help you because of the relationship between the two parties, not for the money. Repaying kindness may not be how much money you have paid, but what you have done.
favors pay more attention to the word "price". The price the other party pays when helping you is too high for him, you should try to pay the same price as much as possible when repaying your kindness.
has loans and returns, and that must be equivalent to "borrows" and "repayments".
Don’t talk about money when talking about feelings, and don’t talk about feelings when talking about money. These two cannot be confused. Money can be used as a carrier for carrying feelings, but feelings cannot be a carrier for money.
Time and Emotional Class:
Zhou Guoping In "On Gratitude", it said:
Gratitude is the unity of knowledge and action. We must not only be grateful and repay kindness. Repaying kindness is not just repaying kindness to the master. If that is the case, it is still a transaction in essence. Those who know the great kindness of life will repay this great kindness with their lifelong actions.
Someone has helped you a lot. The best way to repay is to remember his kindness with your heart and give your all when the other party needs it.
doesn’t need you to always talk about it, nor do you need to do anything to prove your gratitude. Just keep it in your heart, it’s enough.
There are indeed many difficulties and hardships in life. We should have confidence and perseverance in our lives. Don’t think that we are alone or have no value. We should maintain cohesion in the face of disasters. Friends should be bothered and put in a knife when they are difficult. We will never be afraid of giving too much in favor.
Repaying kindness is a very specific thing. As long as others help you a lot, it will be difficult to balance the favors of both parties.
Even if you pay it back, you must remember this kindness. Repaying kindness is not only a traditional virtue, but also a necessity for building a harmonious society together. Everyone should have this awareness.
