Everyone has various desires.
Moderate desire is a motivation that will inspire a person to make progress;
Excessive indulgence is a kind of greed that will make oneself pay the price.
Indulgence on any kind of desire will turn your life into a tragedy.
This 8 desires is quietly destroying a person.
1 The difficult desire for hedonism
The popularity of smartphones has brought convenience to our lives, but also makes it easier for us to indulge in pleasure.
The short videos that can never be finished make people become more and more addictive; the game that can't be stopped when playing makes people feel happier the more they play.
But this instantly satisfying happiness is only short-lived. As the threshold continues to rise, in order to continuously obtain this happiness, it is necessary to strengthen the intensity of the stimulus.
In the end, with the lack of energy, it will only make you become more and more numb and feel more and more tired.
2 Greedy desire to pursue wealth
1 People's greed for wealth is not a bad thing. Greed is the biggest driving force for making money. It can stimulate a person to move forward continuously and create a superior life for himself.
At the same time, a person's greed and desire is endless. If you are not careful, you may fall into the abyss.
Once a person's heart is occupied by greedy desires, it is easy to think of taking shortcuts. Once you choose a shortcut, you will eventually pay a heavy price for it. Many scams take advantage of human greed.
Moderate greed is pursuit, and excessive greed is destruction.
3 Over-indulgent consumption desire
Consumption is to meet one's own needs, not to attract others' attention, nor to pursue the consumption desire that is constantly stimulated, so that one can't extricate oneself from it.
We live in an era of prevalence of consumerism. Diversified shopping methods make our lives more and more convenient, but it is also becoming increasingly difficult to satisfy our shopping desires.
We can only maintain the temporary satisfaction obtained through consumption time and time again.
The over-indulgent desire to consume not only makes you overdraw your money, but also overdraw your sense of happiness.
indulges the desires of the present, but overdraws the future life.
4 Endless desire to express
Everyone has hidden emotions in their hearts, and many times they are eager to release their emotions by expressing their inner voice to others.
However, if a person cannot realize his emotions and does not know how to release his emotions reasonably, he is always eager to express his dissatisfaction to others. This way of expression will cause trouble to others.
No one wants to hear a person's endless confidence, and the communication between people is mutual.
Only by communicating with people and knowing how to express themselves in a proper way can we maintain interpersonal relationships.
5 The growing desire to compare
The fatigue of life comes from survival and half comes from comparison.
A person who is too comparative will make his desires more and more difficult to satisfy. When your abilities do not match your desires, you can only make yourself feel uncomfortable.
The more people compare, the more humble people will feel.
6 Long-term addiction to comfort
A person stays in the comfort zone for a long time and becomes unwilling to work hard and unwilling to change, and eventually becomes a frog in warm water.
Pursuing comfort is a human instinct and the purpose of life.
However, long-term obsession in comfort will make people lose their fighting spirit. Over time, you will face regression and even be eliminated.
is in a comfortable zone for a long time, making it easier for you to enter a desperate situation.
7 Uncontrollably greedy and desire
For a greedy person, it is very difficult to let go of his obsession with food.
Most of the time, I want to eat not because of real hunger, but because of the loneliness of my mouth.
However, blindly indulging in appetite will only bring you various diseases. It not only increases the burden on the body, but also affects your own health.
Uncontrolled greed and desire to eat enough, but lose health.
8 Laziness desire to get used to comfort
Laziness is human nature, and everyone has a lazy side hidden in their hearts.
Once a person forms the habit of laziness, he will be used to being content with the status quo, and he will become procrastinated, have no plans, and lack of action.
People cannot always get used to being lazy. If they are lazy for too long, they will turn their abilities into waste.
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I am Yi Feiyu, a free writer who retires to the countryside.
copywriter who has been drifting in Beijing for ten years.
Focus on self-growth and accompany you to meet a better self.
