Introduction: In this life, no one can avoid human relationships. As one grows older and experienced, one will gradually understand that not all people are worthy of sincere efforts, and not all social interactions are worth participating in.
Especially when people get old and when they reach retirement age, their time becomes more precious and they have no extra free time. Only by maintaining too complex relationships and simplifying their circles is the tranquility you should have.
No matter how good the relationship was, these three people would disappear if they could not see each other. It is not that they are indifferent, but that they are foresighted.
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1. Don’t see people who can’t let go, just hide them in your heart
Everyone will encounter many people when they are young, and some people will leave unforgettable memories for themselves. Although they have not been able to accompany them to the end, time has not erased their traces, but is just buried deep in their hearts.
The past love or missing has become a past tense, but after aging, I can still remember all the past and savor the ups and downs of it, and my heart will still be filled with waves, and even my heart will be moved.
There will always be people who can't stand such suffering and choose to meet old people. This is really not worth the loss. Looking back will not only make people let go of their old love, but will also risk the breaking of their own family, which will only add to both sides.
Some people, some things, and some memories are only suitable for the past and hidden in the heart , so as to ensure its whiteness and flawlessness. Once it is forcibly exposed, it will only destroy this feeling and put yourself in an embarrassing dilemma.
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2. People with disagreement of views don't see it, save time
Most people have their own relatively fixed life circle, which is determined by each person's different views. Usually, only people with similar views will become close friends. Otherwise, when they get along, they will only feel that they are not speculative and have too many sentences.
This is true for many social relationships. They cannot find common language and have no similar views. Forcing them together will only make you feel uncomfortable. They are destined to be a person on the same road. It is better to go their own way separately, and they will be more decent and dignified.
Especially when you are old, you don’t need to pretend to be disgusted as you hate for your affection or interests. Since it is unnecessary social interaction, give up decisively, so that you can live a easier life.
It is better to leave this time for those friends who are worthy of friendship. can not only make your old age richer and more colorful, but also find a circle that suits your life and give your emotions a place.
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3. Don’t see people who step on high and praise low, so as to avoid troubles on their own
Seeking profit and avoiding harm is the instinct of all living things to survive, and people are no exception. In life, not many people will put the interests of others before their own interests, but there are still some people who never consider others and only think about their own climbing.
Their principle of dealing with people is how to maximize their own interests. Before dating with others, they will fully judge the value the other party can bring to them. If the other party is in a high position, then they will strive to cling to them. If the other party cannot bring benefits, they will also avoid them.
When interacting with such a person, he will only feel that the other person is full of scheming and calculating. Even if he treats him sincerely, he will only get the other person's use. When you have value, he will try his best to squeeze you out, and if you lose these value, he will come and take the blame.
Since you have entered old age, you should stay away from this snobbish eye that is high and low, so as not to seek trouble, make your life more peaceful, less unnecessary entanglement, and do more things that can improve yourself.
Conclusion: When a person gets old, he will return to the roots of falling leaves. Return to the period of simple life, draw a clear line with meaningless life, and make yourself feel more comfortable and comfortable, which is more important than anything else.
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