1. None of us can do anything. We live like everyone is satisfied. Many things are like eating. Six or seven percent full is enough, don’t hold on.
2. Life cannot be spotless, and "impurities" can only be filtered out by yourself. In order to make life richer, better and more meaningful, life needs to be settled and life must know how to choose.
3. One of the benefits or disadvantages of getting older is that you can be tolerant of many things. Many times, this means that you can lower your standards repeatedly, or simply forget about the so-called standards.
4. When a person reaches a certain age, he has to learn to hold an umbrella to hide from the rain. No one will come to pick you up in the heavy rain again.
5. If you are not outstanding enough, your connections are worthless. It is not something you pursue, but something you attract. Only equivalent exchange can obtain reasonable help. Although it sounds cold, it is true.
6. Don’t wait for tomorrow, don’t believe in eternity, all you can do is in front of you. What you love, what you do. No one will wait for you on this stormy road of life. All you can do is make yourself faster and stronger.
7. The clearness of water is not because it does not contain impurities, but because it is about knowing how to settle; the transparency of the mind is not because there are no distracting thoughts, but because it is about understanding choices.
8. Don’t look down on rich people at first sight because they don’t spend their money; don’t underestimate the poor people because they don’t rely on me to survive; don’t flatter and favor powerful people because they won’t help me in vain; don’t flatter the successful villain because they don’t catch my eyes!
9. When you are not beautiful at the age of 17, you can blame your mother for not having a good appearance in hereditary form; but when you are still not beautiful at the age of 30, you can only blame yourself, because in such a long time, you have not injected new things into your life. ——Madam Curie
10. Just listen to what you have, don’t take it seriously; just know some things, don’t expose them; just contact some people, don’t have a deep relationship.
11. You think the comfort brought by leisure is a blessing, but in fact it deprives you of your expectations for the future, and cuts off your distance from the world. It makes your mind narrower and makes you more and more suspicious of life.
12. Life is only three days. The confused people live in yesterday, the extravagant people live in tomorrow, and the clear people live in today. Yesterday has passed, it is a check that has expired, and tomorrow has not arrived, it is a check that cannot be withdrawn. Only living today is the most realistic.
13. You can make a person rich, a person has power, and everything you want, but don’t just make a person good to you. Once he doesn’t treat you well, you will have nothing.
14. In this life, you have to believe in this article: you don’t need to work hard to keep, and you don’t need to work hard to keep. Come and go with the flow, and you cannot force it.
15. Only when you are sick can you know how important your body is, only when you graduate can you know how beautiful your student days are, only when you miss it can you know how precious you have. We all know that the queen mother knows it. Don’t wait anymore, don’t delay anymore, do whatever you think of. Some things are too late when you find out how important it is.
16. The only person you need to compare with yourself is your former self. You need to be better than someone, and that person is who you are now.
17. Don’t always blame others for being bad to you. The reason why people always bully you is actually because you are easy to bully. It is because your own weakness and incompetence, which gives others the infinite possibilities to bully you.
18. People have four opportunities to change their destiny in their lifetime. Once you were born with a golden key in your mouth; once you went to a good school and found a good job; once you changed through marriage; if you lost all the above three opportunities, then you still have the only chance, that is to rely on yourself.
19. As you get older, you will believe in less and less. The same as teeth wear. It is neither cynical nor suspicious, it is just wear and tear.
20. As long as you think, those dark lives will eventually leave you. No one will always bear these, and no one is born to like those, so why bother yourself to others?
21. Everything that appears in life cannot be possessed, can only be experienced. Those who know this well will understand: it doesn’t matter whether it’s loss, it’s just a process; it doesn’t matter whether it’s failure, it’s just an experience; look at life with a browsing heart, and all gains and losses, hiddenness and appearance are scenery and charm.
