text/Time has come to you
people all have the day when they grow old. This is how time brings batches of new lives, and takes away one old man after another who has been wasted time, and the inheritance and generation after generation are changed.
From the perspective of the world, people are just a drop in the ocean, but just particles in the torrent of time. Nothing is eternal, and it is enough to exist.
But everyone can think that the world revolves around itself.
After all, people are always subjectively themselves, and working hard for friendship and family affection is also for themselves to gain a sense of happiness.
No one can escape the baptism of time. Qin Shihuang tried every means to seek immortality, but he still became an underground soul.
The passage of time is actually not terrible, but it is difficult for most people to accept it. They do not want to accept it or become old.
Everyone hopes to stay young forever, and everyone wants to be refreshed forever, but the laws of the world cannot be violated.
Instead of passively accepting aging, it is better to take the initiative to accept dusk. You should know that although the sunset is near dusk, it is very stunning.
What the elderly want in life is to be contentment, a pure and peaceful atmosphere, and a calmness that does not care about the world.
To achieve these, we must start with the personal social relationships and eliminate invalid social interactions.
Observation found that many people in their later years who had extremely difficult life in their later years were ignored by the happiness around them and neglected the people around them because they spent too much time on ineffective social interaction.
Not everyone has to contact. The best way for some people to exist is to lie in their mobile address book. You know that person, but you never contact them actively.
You should know that those who are close to the vermilion are red and those who are close to the ink are black. Who do you make friends with will greatly affect your attitude towards life and to the world.
people are old, please remember that no matter how good the relationship is in the past, it is better to have fewer contacts from these three people.
Drinking friends who spend time and time
The most lack of time in the elderly is time. A large amount of free time pours into people's lives, which will inevitably make it difficult for people to adapt.
After all, when people are old, they cannot travel around like when they were young. They are more likely to play around their homes, play chess and cards, and exercise. A lifestyle like
is a portrayal of the real life of many elderly people. They will not feel boring. Time is easily tolerated in their eyes.
Once people get older, they will become lonely with more time. Getting along with friends becomes an important way to eliminate boring life.
idle people always have common topics with idle people. Many idle people in society live in a world of luxury and wealth, and their three views have undergone major changes.
Life is short and timely fun. This sentence is correct for the elderly, but it also depends on the way of "going fun".
Friends who spend time and time living and drinking don’t have to interact with them. When people get old, the most important thing is not to waste time but to take care of themselves.
Eating and drinking is not a healthy lifestyle. Being with people who drink and have fun all day long will sooner or later cause problems in your body, and then it will be more than worth the loss.
Friends who are not upright in their minds and do evil ways
people should take care of their reputation when they are old, and they cannot end up in the late life when they are old.
Whether you are new friends or old friends you have known for a long time, you must stay away from people with bad intentions.
You must have a certain degree of insight, and the first thing is to prevent yourself from being exploited.
Many criminals take advantage of the elderly’s lack of reaction to ordinary people and take advantage of the situation and end up cheating money and doing evil.
Abide by laws and adhere to the moral bottom line. This is the basic requirement for being a human being. No matter how deep the other person’s friendship is, as long as you cross the red line, you must clearly draw a clear line with it.
How many people have committed illegal and moral actions for the sake of so-called friendship and human nature, and the final consequences are still to bear them themselves.
People with bad minds certainly will not think of any friendship when using others, and will even make friends as their targets to make profits.
Once you find that your friend has a problem, as a friend, you need to give advice. If the other party is obsessed with it, he is confused and you cannot follow it brainlessly.
Remember that friendship has been damaged when the other party makes unreasonable requests from you, so there is no need for you to think about friendship.
There are always friends who borrow but not return
Everyone has difficulties. Friends are also a resource that can be used. Only by helping each other can we better withstand the pressure brought by life.
It is normal for friends to borrow money, but you cannot just look at a friendship between friends and you can't lend money.
There are always people who borrow money and don’t pay it back or delay it again and again. If you treat such a person well, it’s just that if you go against his will, he will not take into account the previous kindness and turn against you.
There are loans and repayments, and it is not difficult to borrow again. It is natural to repay the debt.
people always have temporary difficulties. As a friend, help is within the affection but not within the necessary obligations. Those who respect friends will definitely pay back the money on time. No matter how bad it is, there is a saying that they will never borrow again and again.
People who always borrow money but don’t pay it back are either because it’s really difficult or they want to live with others’ help.
The former is enough to borrow money once or twice. After all, it is only the only thing that affects friends, and there is no need for the latter to get along with it anymore.
Many people are "grandsons" when borrowing money, and become "uncles" when paying back the money. The promises they should have fulfilled are worthless in their eyes. Why do such people still have to deal with them?
Time and emotional class:
When people are old, friends and family are the last companionship on the remaining life journey.
Family family members need not say much. Family affection is thicker than water, but they must have a choice when dealing with friends. After all, you know people but not your heart, and you cannot see through the friends around you.
The most important thing in life in my later years is to think about yourself, not a human accident. The most important thing is to live a healthy and happy life.
Everyone will usher in the sunset in their lives. What you need to do is to calm your mind in advance, be prepared, and take the initiative to accept and welcome the sunset in your life.
The older people are, the more they should learn to enjoy, don’t worry about trivial matters anymore, and let yourself live a happy "Taoyuan life".
