[1] Don’t always laugh, especially embarrassing smile. [2] Reject others openly, with a brief reason. Too much explanation will make you the wrong party. Remember, it is not your fault to reject others. [3] Don’t make others happy with your own embarrassment, and don’t say things

【1】Don’t always laugh, especially embarrassing smile.

【2】Reject others openly, and the reasons are short. Too much explanation will make you the wrong party. Remember, it is not your fault to reject others.

【3】Don’t make others happy with your embarrassment, and don’t say things that belittle yourself and elevate others. You would rather be conservative than pretend to be, otherwise it would be counterproductive, and too much is worse than too much.

【4】Don’t be the trash can for others’ emotions. Please keep quiet when others complain to you. Remember, you don't have to please anyone.

【5】No matter where you are, no matter what you do, always put yourself first. Because no one cares whether you think about other people's feelings when you speak. What everyone cares about is whether what you say involves your own interests.

【6】Remember, you can afford to offend 99% of the people around you, and those who you can't afford to offend have no time to pay attention to you.

【7】From now on, whenever you face a choice. You have to go from the past to stand up. I did this little thing , what? Do things you have never done before; pick up people you want to meet; call them immediately: even if you fail, you will not lose much, you have never had it before.

【8】Clearly set your own bottom line and principles, and resolutely choose and protect them with actions. If you borrow money and don’t pay it back, you will block it; if you have a lot of negative energy, you will stay away from it; if you dare to bully you, you will knock it down.

【9】Stop saying whether you are worthy or not. There is no such thing as in this world. As long as you dare and pursue it actively, you are worthy of having many beautiful things in the world.

【10】Dare to pause, no matter how urgent things are, pause for three seconds before replying. For example, when someone makes a request or question, you dare to pause, and your response will give people the feeling of careful thinking.

【11】When talking or typing, remove the auxiliary words such as "ah, la" and so on, for example, change "this is it, of course, yes" to "yes, that's it, that's it, of course, that's it.

[12] Slow down all movements. Turn your head, raise your hand, and get up slowly. Although it is slow, it must be accurate, which will make people feel calm and powerful.

[13] Unless a specific environment, do not actively seek anyone's approval, approval or criticism.

[14] Do not show your expressions with conscious control, and do not show your happiness, anger, sadness on your face. Stop talking about it. Probably, maybe such low-energy words are uncertain, so I can think about it.

[15] Walking firmly, you can strode, but don’t lean forward, and don’t lower your head. Applying your hand movements on your upper body will make people feel that you are very powerful. Don’t place your hands on your lower body when you sit, because this is low Energy. You can have long-term eye contact, gentle and firm eyes, do not avoid your eyes, and do not look away from your eyes first. This is called self-righteousness. You must remove unnecessary movements when walking, standing, sitting, and lying down.

[16] Take the initiative to talk about your shortcomings: often talk about your shortcomings. Then you will find that when you admit yourself, this shortcomings seem to be no big deal, and you will feel relaxed when you say them. Moreover, when others hear your shortcomings, they are not surprised and disgusted at all, but are calm and gentle/encourage you. In short, walking other people's paths will leave others with no way out.

【17】List your own advantages: Everyone knows what advantages they have, but ordinary people rarely praise themselves and appreciate themselves. So, please list your advantages. Write out your 100 advantages. Then you will be full of confidence. Read your 100 advantages every day, and you will completely transform into a confident person.

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