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Writer Xiao Hong once said: "No matter how big the eaves of others are, it is better to have an umbrella yourself."
The world is your own and has nothing to do with others.
People who really care about you are rare in this world.
Everyone cares about themselves. Maybe they don’t want to listen to what you say; maybe they don’t want to listen to your trivial life, maybe they don’t want to be interested in it at all.
There is a hot topic on Weibo : One of the signs of a person's maturity is the loss of desire to talk.
It is human nature to hang up because things don’t matter.
So, don't complain to anyone, because 20% of people don't care, and 80% are very happy after hearing this.
The collapse of adults is silent. No matter how painful it is, you must learn to switch to silent mode.
knows that other people’s concerns are really out of politeness, and your own mess can only be cleaned up by yourself in the end.
TV series "Yu Huanshui", there is a line like this: "No one will really sympathize with me. When I feel uncomfortable, when I can't sleep, only darkness will sympathize with me.
When I walk, only the road will sympathize with me. After I die, only the grave will sympathize with me."
The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected, and there is no empathy in this world.
needles don’t prick on yourself, and you will never know what kind of pain it is.
Some things are a big deal for yourself, but for others it is just a story.
You really don’t have to tell everyone about your suffering.
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Author: Yichan Little Monk. The article comes from the Little Monk Yichan (ID: yichan6666). Use simple Zen principles to solve the problems of life. Please contact Yichan for reprinting.