In life, it is always inevitable to encounter failures. In the face of failure, some people will choose to blame and blame their failure on their fortune or others; some people will actively reflect on themselves, even if it is not entirely their own responsibility, they will not be aggressive, but will reflect on their own shortcomings while taking responsibility. The former person will only blame others and will never learn from failure; the latter person, failure is not setbacks but wealth, because in every failure, he can gain valuable life experience and help himself take a big step towards success.
There are always many unexpected accidents in life, such as going to the amusement park, but suddenly it rains heavily; a job opportunity that has almost been obtained has been snatched away by someone's back door; the ideal that has been pursuing has been persistent, but after making every effort, there is still no hope of success... Among these things, some factors are something we can control, while some factors are outside our control. No matter how unwilling, resentful, or sad we are, we are unable to control the factors outside of control. What we can really do is to firmly control what we can control, such as improving our abilities, enhancing our knowledge, expanding our social relationships, etc., so as to increase our bargaining chips.
