Author: Ning Wenying
Many friends complain that every morning, many people greet him on WeChat, which disturbed his normal life and was very distressed, but they didn't know what to do.
When I heard this, it seemed that the distressed person should be scolded: show off! Is it okay if someone asks you every day? Doesn’t it mean that you have been successful in life? How many people would greet each day when a person picking up rags?
This is true. Those who can persist in greeting you every day show that they care about you, respect you, and care about you, and every blessing comes from the heart.
In fact, this should be a cognitive misunderstanding.
Although the person who greets you every day is commendable, it is necessary to distinguish the actual situation of the person you are asking for and whether it is necessary.
Some people are idle at home or bedridden, and they look forward to interacting with others on WeChat every day, and talking to the world between a small amount can relieve their loneliness; some people are busy with affairs and stressed, and are busy every day like fighting, and their minds are full of work and tasks... When you wake up in the morning, you don’t break your eyes and have to straighten out your work plan, itinerary, and ideas on the day. How can you have the spare time and energy to read blessing messages?
Also, before going to work in the morning, it was the most stressful time. I washed, cooked breakfast, ate, and cleaned up. During this period, I joined in the fun with a message ringtone. I was afraid of delaying important information, so I was busy in the kitchen and hurriedly ran to my phone to open it. It was a blessing message. One at a time, one at a time, no one can figure out which one is the message of something, that time was a message of blessing. WeChat also does not have the function of distinguishing blessing information and transaction information. So, once you hear the ringtone of your phone, you feel uneasy. If you don’t read it, you are afraid of misleading things; if you look at it, you are afraid of being a greeting message that doesn’t hurt or itchy.
Moreover, if you encounter a greeting message, do you still not reply? It's contrary to common sense if you don't reply; reply, so much greetings, don't do serious things in the morning. In this way, what should I do if my job is lost? What should I do if the task cannot be completed on time?
sincerely suggests that those who greet each other every day can consider the actual consideration of the person you are looking for. Giving your daily greetings to those who really need them is a kind of good fate. As for those who are busy every day, they are exempted from greetings every day. True friendship will not fade with the passage of time and space. After a few years, decades, or even a lifetime, there is almost no contact in normal times, and once a demand is issued, the other party will appear as soon as possible, that is the true friendship.
2022.10.20
(Ning Wenying, Shaanxi Writers Association member, Shaanxi Dramatists Association member, Chinese Dramatists Association)
