Maintaining a proper distance when getting along with people will make people feel safe, and a sense of security is the prerequisite for getting closer to people slowly.
Know how to behave when you get along with others. This is a person’s cultivation and education.
- 1. Don’t show off
Don’t show off in front of real friends, the more you show off, the further you are from you. At the same time, it is the same to others. Only by showing off less will you meet more sincere friends, otherwise it will only attract jealousy, even hate and revenge. Therefore, when you get along with others, there is no need to show off to attract the attention of others.
- 2. Sincerity
Sincerity, sincerity, sincerity, sincerity, sincerity, when dealing with others, you must be sincere. Only when you treat others sincerely can you treat them with sincerity.
- 3. Keeping distance
When you get along with others, you must know how to leave enough time and space for others, and do not break into other people's private space without authorization, and do not take up other people's private time. Only by knowing how to keep a sense of distance will make people feel safe.
- 4. Have a sense of decent
Everyone has secrets that they don’t want to tell. Don’t ask for it self-righteously and find out the truth. When you get along with others, you must always know how to be decent. This is a person’s upbringing.
- 5. Can talk
Everyone has their own preferences and personalities. When getting along with others, you should learn to read the dishes and not talk the same words as everyone else. Some people like to listen to some people but others don’t like to listen to them.
- 6. Good at rejecting
When you get along with others, don’t take things that have nothing to do with you. After all, not everyone knows how to be grateful. Sometimes, if you care too much about nothing, it will be annoying, so you must dare to refuse.
- 7. Praise others
Most people who know how to praise others frequently at work and in life are liked by people because people will not dislike getting along with those who praise themselves and appreciate themselves.
- 8. Thank you for others
Whether in life or work, when you receive help and recognition from others, you must say thank you in time. People who are grateful will make people like and get along with each other.
- 9. Don’t lie
As the saying goes, “There is no airtight wall in the world .”
If you lie too much, it will become a habit. No lie can be perfectly rounded back. One day it will be exposed, so you cannot lie when you get along with others.
- 10. Don’t take advantage
As the saying goes, “There is no free lunch in the world.”
When you get along with others, you always want to take advantage. You will only be used by villains and will be looked down upon or hated by others. Therefore, not taking advantage is also a kind of protection for yourself.
- 11. If you are not serious,
If you are too serious, you will find it difficult for others to get along with. When others don’t understand, you will feel uncomfortable and it will not be worth the loss. Therefore, you should not be too serious when getting along with others.
- 12. Dare to be hated
As the saying goes, "Each carrot and cabbage has its own love."
There is no perfect person in the world. It is impossible for a person to be loved by everyone. Therefore, when you get along with others, you must dare to be hated, so that you will not be tired of living.
- 13. There are bottom lines and principles
You can let go of your face when you get along with others, but you can never lose your inner world. As a person, you must stick to your bottom lines and principles.
- 14. Good at respecting and understanding
As the saying goes, "You respect me one foot and I respect you one foot."
When you respect and understand others, you will find that you have been respected and understood by others. This is to give respect and understanding to others, and others will also respect and understand you.
- 15. Always tolerate
people have their own ambitions and vary greatly. No one is a perfect existence copied and pasted. You should always be tolerant to imperfect people. The so-called tolerance to others means tolerance to oneself.
- 16. Be good at discovering your own value
When getting along with others, be good at discovering your own value. When asking for help, you must make the other party feel meaningful and valuable. At the same time, you must know that it is appropriate to stop when you ask for help.
- 17. Always be kind
When dealing with people, you must be kind, but you must not be soft-hearted and be too kind, which will eventually harm others and yourself.
- 18. Memorize nosy
Don’t worry about others when you get along with others. Memorize nosy. Others won’t miss you, but will only remember your badness.
- 19. Good at listening
When getting along with people, you must be good at listening and not express subjective ideas and opinions blindly. You must say everything after you have thought about it. You must understand that you will never accept what you say. A person who is uncontrollable will not gain the trust of others.
- 20. Don’t judge people by their appearance
As the saying goes, “A person should not behave like a person, and the sea water should not be weighed.”
When getting along with others, you should not blindly underestimate others or look up to someone. When you know people, you should first look at your heart and not be blinded by other people’s appearance. Even an inconspicuous beggar has advantages.
- 21. Good at communicating
When getting along with people, you must learn to communicate. Most of the time, communication is much more useful than reasoning. Communication can be closer to the other person's heart little by little, while reasoning is just one-sided speech.
Hate someone, not turning against you or being pretentious, it is your generosity, but you will be happier.
and above are my sharing today. If you bring inspiration and help, please give me a thumbs up. Thank you for your support. Let’s work together~
Author: Zhen Xinwu
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