" Breaking Kiln Fu " says: "The times cannot be relied on, poverty cannot be deceived. Things in the world are over and over again, and they must be repeated."
All the opportunities and momentums of
are not long-lasting, and we cannot rely entirely on them. And all poverty and humility are not static. Things in this world will begin over and over again, and will be in order.
When you should be rich, you will gradually move towards glory. Even if you are an ordinary person, fate will give you opportunities and make you achieve something.
When you shouldn't be rich, even if you are a talented man, you may not be able to achieve the achievements you deserve. Because of the word fate, the future of man is limited.
When talking about "fate", I thought of such an interesting point of view. has good fortune but bad luck, just like a luxury car driving on a rugged mountain road. No matter how good your car is, it is impossible to drive safely.
is lucky but not good, that is even more vivid. is like a tractor speeding on an open highway. Unfortunately, the tractor is still a tractor, which cannot change the reality of poor hardware.
So if a person wants to be rich, he must possess these three conditions. It is difficult to achieve anything without any of them.
First point: personal ability and background.
As mentioned above, life can be divided into hardware and software. Hardware is inevitable, while software is gradually changing with the development of the environment and the times.
hardware is generally related to these three. is first of all a person's native family, secondly a person's talent and ability, and thirdly, the resources and connections you have.
Your native family is good and your talent is okay. Then the resources and connections of the third party can be mastered by you. Because all resources and connections can be obtained through family and personal abilities.
There are two young people who start their own businesses. They have similar abilities and little difference in talent. Why do young people with money and those behind their backs succeed, while young people with no money and background fail miserably?
has too many successes, all of which are heaped from conditions. The more conditions you have, the greater the probability that you will be able to succeed. Let’s look at the big guys who started the Internet business and understand this.
Except for the boss who graduated from Renmin University, the other bosses actually have background blessings.
people, in addition to being talented, you also need to have background confidence, so that you can achieve the effect of "one plus one is greater than two".
Second point: your noble people and opportunities.
Lu Meng said in "Breaking Kiln Fu" that Han Xin has no strength to tie a chicken and is established as a wise minister of the Han Dynasty. Before he met, he had no day's mouth. When he reached the beginning of the journey, he was under the seal of the King of Qi, scared Yan to take Zhao, and commanded millions of powerful soldiers. Once the time was stopped, he died in the hands of the Yin people.
Han Xin is not a powerful general who charges in the final analysis. He is only suitable to be a general commanding in the rear.
When Liu Bang did not meet , he couldn't eat enough and couldn't sleep well. After becoming famous, he actually used the king's seal and swept the world. Later, he lost his luck and was killed by Xiao He and Empress Lu .
In fact, many people have Han Xin’s talent, but they may not have Han Xin’s luck. If you don’t have luck, you won’t meet a boss who appreciates you. No matter how talented you are, a hero will be useless. With luck, you can rise straight.
People all think that it doesn’t matter whether you have luck or not. In reality, people with extreme luck may not even be able to save their lives. Just like Han Xin in the later period, success and failure are Xiao He.
So, if you want to make money and make a fortune, your essence is to let your talents meet matching noble people and opportunities, and get a moment of amazing success and brilliant glory.
The third point: patience and tolerance to wait for the opportunity.
" Zhouyi " says: "A gentleman hides his weapon in his body and waits for the moment to move."
A truly capable person can hide his talents and wait for an opportunity to move no matter what environment he is in. When the time comes, I seize it in one fell swoop, but the time has not come, so I can bear it and let myself accumulate strength silently and stand in an invincible place.
In the early years of the Ming Dynasty, King of Yan Zhu Di did not have the qualification to ascend to the great treasure. Even his father, Zhu Yuanzhang, only regarded the prince , as his heir. Even though Zhu Biao died later, Zhu Yuanzhang just asked the crown prince Zhu Yunwen to succeed the throne.
Zhu Di knew his own situation very clearly. Tai Sun succeeded to the throne, and the first person he wanted to kill was King Yan. There is no way, he can only pretend to be crazy, giving people a feeling of being crazy.
After a long time, Zhu Yunwen believed it, believing that King Yan Zhu Di could not pose any threat. He relaxed his vigilance and was exploited by Zhu Di. Not only did he lose the city, but he even lost the army that surrounded and suppressed Zhu Di and was defeated repeatedly and was in a mess.
It is because Zhu Di knows how to forbear and knows the wisdom of "hiding the instrument in his body", so he has the courage and confidence to "come first". All the latecomers in this world are the result of forbearance and accumulation of energy.
people. If they have not yet achieved success and have not encountered their own opportunities, then we should continue to endure. To be patient, that is competing with time. Winning the end is our best result.
text/Shushan Youlu
