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people who are middle-aged, and their life philosophy and life pursuits should be adjusted accordingly.
Because you are no longer young at this time, you no longer have so much trial and error costs. Compared with your previous willfulness and recklessness, you should try to make yourself steady and mature.
After all, the smartest way of living for middle-aged people is actually only one word.
This looks very simple, but it actually contains great wisdom in life. If you can do it, you will basically have no worries in the second half of your life.
1: Stable
A simple word stable summarizes the best state in middle age.
The so-called stability is not only stable, but also stable. Stability refers to real life, while stability is a state deep in a person's heart, a state that tends to mature.
After middle age, don’t be rushing to achieve success or rushing around. You should firmly guard your work and family. At work, no matter how much you make, you should first pursue stability, otherwise the future will be full of variables and life will be drifting.
After all, there are never a few people who are facing a mid-life crisis in middle-aged unemployment.
The stability of the family is more important than work.
At this age, don’t have any ideas you shouldn’t have. If you are not careful, you may put yourself in a situation of no return. For example, some men in life are not satisfied with their existing marriages and blindly talk about extramarital love. Do you think you are meeting true love? Do you think your life is revitalized?
is not actually, it is just an illusion of yours. You are deceiving yourself and numbing yourself.
When one day, you lose your marriage and family, and your children become enemies with you, you will know what regret is.
After all, in the second half of life, the real struggle is the wife and children. The family is unstable and everything is zero.
2: Quiet
Quiet means quietness, a calm mind. Only when you calm yourself down can you know what you want, know how you should go in the future, and how to manage your future life.
The more impetuous you are, the more anxious you are, and the more you like to compete with others, the more likely you are to lose yourself.
After reaching middle age, you must keep yourself quiet.
Don’t worry about other people’s affairs, just focus on living a good life; don’t have too many desires to avoid making yourself tired; don’t do things that hurt your family, so as not to cause tension in the relationship between family members and your fortune will also be affected.
Don’t blindly compare with others, or even punish yourself with other people’s success. This is unnecessary and unwise.
Make yourself calm, but in fact, it is to make yourself live a clear life.
Know what to do and what not to do, so as not to pursue the wrong things and walk on the wrong path.
3: Independent
What is independent? In fact, it is just enjoying being alone and loneliness.
When you reach middle age, you are lucky to be alone, because you are under too much pressure and burdened too much. You rarely have time to be alone with yourself.
In the company, you play the role of an employee. When you come home, you play the role of a son, husband and father. You have so many responsibilities to fulfill and so many obligations to bear. There are very few opportunities for you to be yourself.
So time alone is precious and rare, because at this time, you are just yourself, you can live for yourself and do what you like.
Enjoying loneliness is also a blessing. At this time, you have no distractions and are extremely quiet, like being on an empty island, no one comes to bother you, and there are not so many things that will make you worry.
This feeling is like working hard for a long time in a chaotic environment and suddenly having a vacation.
When you reach middle age, you must learn to keep yourself stable, calm and enjoy being alone. Only in this way can you be closer to your inner self, listen to the voice deep in your heart, know what you want, and how to live.
Don’t be influenced by others and go your own way firmly.
tells yourself that as long as it suits you, it is the best. Not comparing with others, nor blindly pursuing things that do not belong to you. Knowing how to be content and knowing how to be grateful is the best life.
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