used to always hear: we can get everything we expect in our hearts. If your desire is strong, you can also become a millionaire, start a company, or become the prime minister. It should be admitted that this myth has certain positive significance and can make people feel confident, but if it is divorced from personal reality, then the greater the hope, the deeper the pain will be.
In fact, the same attractive view is: we are confident that we can control our own destiny, and each of us is a unique complex of strength and weakness, opportunities and limitations. This will not change even if we use specific products or change our philosophy of life. Refusing to admit this fact and thinking that you can do everything is as dangerous as walking on thin ice. Your life wine may have a chance to look brand new, but you cannot know or decide whether this can be achieved.
If you treat yourself well, you won’t think you can do anything. Due to your unique combination of physical fitness, intelligence and emotions, some paths may be smooth for you, while others are destined to disappoint you. The more accurate you understand yourself, the more likely you are to choose the right path. The more correct the path you choose, the greater the chance of you achieving success.
This does not mean that as long as you are born in a peasant family, you should be content with poverty, nor does it mean that as long as you are a woman, you are destined to rely on a man. Environmental and cultural conditions are just a part of the entire picture. The internal forces that stimulate you and determine your personal values and beliefs are those more powerful factors. If you have initiative, creativity, skills, and belief, you can overcome incredible huge obstacles, even breaking away from the shadows of your childhood bullying experience. However, if you like to work alone and are not used to living in larger groups, it makes no sense for you to be keen on managing a large company. If you are good at acting and excited about a challenging career, you may not like to live in a rural house that is suitable for meditation and hard work for a long time. If you are obsessed with some positions and ideas that are not suitable for your true personality, even if you succeed on the surface, you must feel the existence of conflict.
However, if you cannot correctly understand yourself, your chances of external success will be less. When you feel uncomfortable or inattentive, your judgment will shake. You may not be able to distinguish between positive and negative risks, and may lack the decisiveness to solve problems. Even if you are technically competent in a role, if you feel incapable and unresponsible, you will not be able to perform at your best.
Therefore, everyone should set a life goal that suits them according to their actual situation. In other words, you must be clear about what you can do, what you are suitable for, and whether you have the talents and conditions in this regard. All of this determines whether you can succeed. In order to make your development continuity, it is a good idea to make a comprehensive personal evaluation about every year. This includes your body, knowledge, emotional characteristics - advantages and disadvantages. Then list the characteristics you must have in order to achieve your personal goals and the qualities required to achieve your professional goals. If your true self is consistent with the self you want, it means your goals are reasonable. Promoting yourself is actually selling your own life goals, that is, achieving your own life goals.
Without a goal, you cannot promote yourself. Similarly, too many goals will make you unable to succeed. You can only choose the goals that suit you based on your actual situation, so that you can concentrate all your wisdom and successfully promote yourself. Napoleon Hill I did a lot of things in my life, but I didn’t succeed. It was only after I discovered the theory of success that I clarified my goals and successfully promoted this theory to our society. Without this goal, no one might know his name.
Everyone’s goals will not be the same. You must find your own goal, and then strive towards this goal to achieve it.
