"Insensitivity" says: "Insensitivity is the means and wisdom for us to win a better life."
Everyone's life cannot be smooth sailing.
Faced with the ups and downs of life, people who are overly sensitive often suffer double harm;
Only by having "insensitiveness" can you block out excessive interference and move forward lightly.
has "insensitiveness" and ignores others' slander
Yang Jiang said: "When you are in a high position, you see all the flashy spring dreams; when you are in a humble state, you have the opportunity to see the truth of the world."
When people are in a low position, it is most likely to see the true face of the people around them.
At this time, the world is the thinnest, and the wealthy wolf is the most fierce.
If you are sensitive and fragile in your heart, you may be overwhelmed and give up on yourself in the face of contempt, slander and insults from people around you.
Some people are very energetic, but when they face the continuous blows, sarcasm and sarcasm of the people around them, they finally chose to "lie down".
When people are in a low point, there will always be some snobs who will take the blame.
At this time, if we cannot withstand the pressure and choose to give up, then we will fulfill the wish of such people.
So, no matter how hard or difficult we are, we must withstand the pressure and "strike our breath".
In life, failure is not scary, what is scary is to position yourself as a "failed".
As long as you can keep the "hope in your heart", you will inevitably wait for the time to come.
"Poverty is not ashamed, but shame means poverty but no ambition."
Only by putting down the excessive care of others' "slander and insult" and firming one's ambitions can we usher in the day when the wind and waves are broken.
has "insensitiveness", ignore the eyes of others
What is the most important thing when people are in a trough? Is it what others think of themselves?
is not.
When people are in a trough, it is the top priority to make themselves stronger and get out of difficulties.
In life, some people are clearly at a low point and are "very embarrassed", but they still care too much about the eyes of others.
Because they care too much about the eyes of others, they are embarrassed to do it, and they are unwilling to do it, for fear that they will "drop the price".
The result can only make you linger in the "low trough" and be despised and ridiculed by everyone.
This is not clear.
A truly wise person, at a low point, will give up his "cheap face" and make himself stronger first.
If a person fails to succeed, then the more his "shame" is covered, the more he will "will be more obvious".
Since it cannot be blocked, don’t block it.
If you want to wash away the "shame", the first thing you have to do is to lower your "noble head", lower your lower body and calm yourself down and calm yourself down.
If a person cannot lower his head, then it will be difficult for him to have a chance to "look up".
When a person succeeds, then the sadness and embarrassment in the past will no longer be a shame, but will instead become his "Medal".
Ignoring others' eyes and strengthening yourself is the king.
has "insensitiveness", and the emotions that underestimate oneself
are at a low point. Some people will complain, and some people will become pessimistic and negative.
The emergence of these emotions is normal.
The key is how we face these emotions.
When faced with unpleasant things, complaining appropriately can vent your own emotions.
However, complaining should also have a degree.
If you let yourself indulge in complaining, then your fighting spirit will be gradually worn out.
Only by stopping complaining in time and reflecting on one's own mind can we find a solution to the problem, break through the difficulties, and open up a new path.
Facing half a cup of water, pessimists think that there is only half a cup of water; but optimistic people think that there is still half a cup of water.
In the same situation, why are some people able to survive in a desperate situation, while others are trapped in the same place?
is a big part of the reason, which is different mentality.
When looking at things with a pessimistic attitude, you can only see the pessimistic side; when looking at things with an optimistic attitude, you will always find the "favorable" side. This will use the "favorable side" to get rid of the predicament.
A person's top emotional intelligence is not to be able to speak, but to be able to control one's own emotions.
Only by having "insensitive" and not being entangled by "negative emotions" can you get rid of the shackles and go further.
Conclusion:
Lu You said: "The mountains and rivers are full of roads, and there is another village with dark willows and flowers."
The more you are in the darkest moment of life, the more you must keep your heart and not be "influenced" by the surrounding environment.
You should know that the time before dawn is the darkest.
"You can stand it, outstanding; you can't stand it, get out."
Let your heart be "blunt", so that you can get through it more easily and usher in the dawn of victory.
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