1, Without economic independence, there is a lack of self-esteem; without thinking independence, there is a lack of autonomy; without personal independence, there is a lack of self-confidence.
2, Time is like a big sieve, which can withstand filtering. Friends who think they have a good time may not be what you imagined.
3, Society will not lower the standards for you because of your tears, and life will not give you everything you want because of your fragility. No one cares about your downs and outs, no one feels sorry for your tears. Others only care whether you have the ability and whether you will succeed.
4, tea is only two postures, floating and sinking; tea drinkers only have two postures, picking up and putting down. Life is like tea. Be calm when it is sunny and calm when it is floating. You need to let go if you can take it.
5, Men with a little talent often live in their bodies, Qin Shihuang , but their degree of autocracy is different; women with a little beauty often live in their bodies, Empress Dowager Cixi, but their desire to control is different. ——Song Shinan
6, Morality and principles are important, but they always have to give way to the benefits in their hands.
7, In this world, everyone has selfish intentions, and no one is willing to compromise himself and tolerate another person. All concessions are because of caring, and all tolerance is because of attention.
8, Don’t say lightly who you are giving and sacrificing for. In fact, the ultimate beneficiary of all the efforts and sacrifices is yourself. Life is a self-cultivation that has nothing to do with anyone. It is a path of joy and joy. There must be gifts at the end of the road, it depends on whether you deserve it.
9, You may be worthless in front of one person, but you are priceless in front of another person. Remember your own value, this is the reason why people move and live.
10, You care too much about your feelings. You always want to catch things that do not belong to you. You always want to keep people who are different from you. The result is contrary to your wishes. What should be lost is lost, and what should be left is gone.
11, Kindness and love are both free, but not cheap. Your kindness needs to be a little sharp, and your love needs to be rational and recognize people with your eyes. After all, not everyone deserves them.
12, Life is long, and you will encounter many powerless things in the future. Take your eyes longer, and slowly you will find that these are no big deals. Encounter what you should meet, and give up what you should give up.
13, A person must have enough temperament to accommodate the ups and downs of life. A person must have a long-term perspective in order to see the wind and rain in life.
14, Life is just a list. What you want and don’t want. People who calculate too clearly are usually extremely smart, but they are in return for countless troubles and hard work. People will not suffer for a lifetime, but they will always suffer for a while.
15, does not belong to their own romance, just like a kite tied online, no matter how high it flies, there will always be a time to fall; feelings that do not belong to their own are like sand in their hands, no matter how tight it holds, there will be a risk of passing; hearts that do not belong to their own are like clockwork, no matter how long it takes, there will be a day of shutdown!
16, Not everyone can be what they want, but everyone can work hard to be what they want. Believe in yourself, if you can tie yourself up, you can break through the cocoon and become a butterfly.
17, If you want to be respected, respect others first; if you want to be understood, understand others first; if you want to be tolerated, tolerate others first; if you want to be appreciated, appreciate others first; if you want to be humble, give in to others first. Because people are mutual.
18, When I was a child, I hoped that I would grow up soon. When I grew up, I found that I had lost my childhood; when I was single, I began to envy the sweetness of my lover, and when I was in love, I miss the freedom when I was single. Many things always feel beautiful when they are not given, and only after they get them will we begin to understand: what we get is also losing.
