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I don’t know how many people will look back on their lives when they are old. At a helpless age, they examine their first half of their lives. In this period, they often find many truths that they can’t figure out and cannot understand when they are young.
Some people say that listening to an old man’s words is better than reading for ten years.
Because that is the wisdom condensed by the old man over his life, there are countless pits he has stepped on, and countless surprise rewards he has received because of the correct decision.
No matter how dull a person is, he will know what he has done, and therefore what he has gained or lost. These are precious life experiences for us.
You cannot experience other people's lives personally. Your life must move forward through slow exploration. At this time, the life experience of the elderly can serve as a guiding light for your life, guiding you to the right track of life, thereby realizing happiness in life.
The heartfelt words of a centenarian are worthy of everyone's reference. He said that the best way to live in life is just one sentence: make yourself superior to everything in the world.
Grandma Li is now 102 years old. In the impression of being around the corner, she is a very kind old man, always smiling on her face, and a very strong body. She rarely gets sick.
When someone asked her about her health secret, she always told those who came to seek scriptures earnestly: In fact, it is very simple, just make yourself superior to everything in the world.
1: Don’t sacrifice your future for your family
This sentence is easy to understand. It means that you must always put yourself first in your life. When doing anything, the first thing you must consider is your own interests. Even if you have married and started a family, you cannot easily sacrifice your future for your family.
Every time Grandma Li sees those women who choose to go home to be a full-time housewife for the so-called love and to take care of their family, she is very anxious and angry.
In her opinion, this is irresponsible for her life, and that is giving her future to a man who may not be reliable.
In the long run, this is even more of a sacrifice. And this kind of sacrifice can only move yourself. Others will not be grateful to you. The more you sacrifice, the more you pay, the more others will take it for granted.
True love is fulfillment. It is definitely not a thing that hurts you in the name of love. Since the profession of full-time housewife, there have been many silly women in society who are heartbroken. They foolishly believe in love and men, but in the end they are ruthlessly hurt and disliked by men without conscience.
This is the most likely outcome for the sake of the family.
2: Don’t lose your happiness for others
3 People live for a lifetime, who is not the topic of conversation among others? Who doesn’t love someone and hate someone?
No one can do perfectly, and it is impossible for people who are loved by everyone to exist. Even if it is money with infinite charm, some people will like it and some people will hate it.
Therefore, no matter what, there is no need to take others seriously, after all, you are the most important existence in your life.
You don’t need to keep it in mind for the incomprehension of outsiders. There is no need to take others' disgust for you seriously.
Due to different cognition, experience, and education levels, not everyone will have a consistent view. For those who don’t think you are unhappy and those who don’t think you should be treated with an inclusive attitude, without worrying about them, nor do they have to affect their mood because of them.
throw away your own happiness for others, thus affecting your own health. It is not worth it. Happiness is priceless. Only by protecting it well will your life be happy for a long time.
at the end:
The heartfelt words of this centenarian are worthy of reference by all of us and become a guide to guide our life direction.
But just knowing that it is not very useful. If you want to be helpful, you must take action and use actions to verify whether the elderly’s life experience is worth it. In this way, you will not let your life down.
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