1. All the things you have cried before, after many years, you will definitely say them out with a smile and then scold yourself: I was so stupid at the beginning, but in fact, there are not so many worries in life. Time will solve everything, love yourself well.
2. Life is not only the worries and boredom in front of you, but also the poetry and beautiful scenery in the distance. Take a trip that you can go without saying a walk, empty yourself, save yourself, and sublimate yourself.
3. In this world, those who don’t know you are called passers-by, those who don’t harm you are called good people, those who don’t let you go are called enemies, those who come to you are called friends, those who never leave you are called relatives. And these people don’t understand you, those who understand you are called: lover.
4. Time is a good thing, which verifies people's hearts, witnesses human nature, understands the truth, and understands the false. There is no experience that cannot be overcome, only oneself who cannot get out of it!
5. Have the greatest hope, do your best, make the worst plans, and keep the best attitude. Remember what you should remember, forget what you should forget, change what you can change, and accept what you will become a fact. The sun is always new, and every day is a good day.
6. Don’t rush to let life give you all the answers. Sometimes, you have to show patience and wait. Even if you shout to the valley, you have to wait for a while before you hear the long echo. In other words, life will always give you the answers, but you won’t tell you everything immediately.
7. Communication between two people: 70% is emotions, 30% is content. If the emotions are not right, the content will be distorted. Even if you have a lot of feelings and no good emotions, no matter how much you say, you will just vent it.
8. People do not have to be glorious, but they must be upright; they do not have to be perfect, but they must have a clear conscience; treat everyone around them with a sincere heart; and thank everything they have with a grateful heart.
9. We always envy others. You envy my freedom, I envy your constraints; you envy my car, I envy your room; you envy my work, I envy you always have rest time every day. Perhaps, we are all farsighted and always live in looking up to others; perhaps, we are all mysighted and often ignore the happiness around us.
10. Different people, if you do the same thing for you, you will feel a world of difference. Because what we care about is often not what people do, but only the people who do things.
11. People should still maintain the ability to be satisfied by the slightest bits of life, such as tasting long-lost delicacies, relive familiar street corners, buy favorite skirts, and perceive the gentle moments. These seemingly fragments of life are secret passages to happy stars.
12. People who always live in the past have bad life, bad thoughts, and bad life, because they are always escaping. Memory is used to remember, not for tribute, nor for your escape. Those who truly understand life will only miss the past and will never fill the present with the past.
13. You will always encounter such a time in your life. Your heart is already in chaos, but in the eyes of others, you are just a little silent than usual, and no one will find it strange. This kind of war is doomed to be single-handed. —— Bai Yansong "Pain and happiness"
14. Beggars may not necessarily be jealous of millionaires, but they may be jealous of beggars with higher incomes. Without a higher vision, you will be entangled in the current circle; with a higher vision, you will take the people and things around you indifferently
15. When you are right, you don’t need to say anything; when you are in the wrong, no matter what you say is useless! Someone once said: "If you are the right party, you don't need to lose your temper; if you are the wrong party, you don't have the right party." This is true wisdom.
16. No matter how good you do, there will still be some people pointing fingers; even if you are in a mess, there will still be some people singing praises. So you don’t have to fall into the eyes of others. You need to please, just yourself.
17. Every period of time has its value and should not be disappointed.The stupidest thing a person can do in his life is to spend all his hopes on a certain node in the future, and ignore the joys that life itself should have.
18. Every day, tell yourself to control your emotions, not complain, and be cautious in your words and actions. This is not to become cowardly and have no temper, but to slowly improve yourself. Do not use malicious guesses on others, do not cause trouble for others with personal gain, do not underestimate yourself, and do not slander others. This is the most basic requirement for yourself.
19. Life advice: You must give up ineffective social interaction. It is difficult to be friends if you disagree with your values. There is no need to talk about so many big principles. If you don’t think about it at the same level, you don’t have to convince each other.
20. Comment less on others’ affairs, review and clean up your own affairs more, do your best, and add more energy to help and care for others, and try to be kind. Otherwise, you are just a person who joins in the fun, not a good medicine.
21. Don’t care too much about other people’s feelings. Don’t be nervous when others are lost. Don’t be soft-hearted when others apologize. Don’t always make others happy and feel wronged. Think about it yourself, why bother yourself to be so tired and breathless. People who are too sensitive and too kind will suffer in the end.
