Author: March 2
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Always like a sentence: "There are fewer and fewer people around you, and the people who stay are becoming more and more important."
I don't know when it started, but we have gradually gotten used to parting, took the gains and losses indifferent, and accepted the drift of our best friends.
Someone said: Life is a lonely journey, no one will always be by your side, and there is no relationship that is eternal.
Maybe this is the relationship between people. Everyone you meet in your life is just a passerby in life and can only bring you short-term joy.
This road in life will eventually be able to walk alone.
Remember, in a college class, the teacher asked each of us to take out a piece of paper, draw a circle on the paper, write the people who are most important to you in it, and then draw circles in turn, and write down the names of those people in an important, more important and unimportant order.
I thought I would write down many people’s names in the most important people, but when I actually wrote it, I realized that except for parents and family, the most important people were no longer important.
Once upon a time, whenever the word "friend" was mentioned, several people's names would unconsciously appear in our minds, and they occupied a very important position in our hearts.
But as time goes by, friends who have been inseparable from each other, have long stopped contacting each other. When they meet occasionally, they just say some polite words, and they can no longer be as heart-to-heart as before.
Maybe as someone said: time is passing, so are we. Those who leave should be open to the people and learn to let go of the people and things that have passed.
If one day, your former friends will become more and more distant from you, don’t rush to find the reasons, and don’t doubt yourself, because this is the norm in life.
However, in this noisy world, there are always people who think that a person has no friends, either a poor relationship or a problem with his character. People who have no friends live a very failed and sad life.
But what I want to say is that the higher the level of a person, the less friends they have.
Those who have no friends often live very advanced. They live in their own world, have enough time to enjoy life, and have more energy to improve themselves. Even if there is no one around them, they will not feel lonely.
Moreover, they do not need friends, but understand that real friends are hard to come by.
Nowadays, the relationship between people is related to interests, and it is really not easy to make a sincere friend.
Furthermore, those who have no friends are people who don’t like to settle down. In their world, friends should treat each other sincerely, rather than deceive, conceal and exploit them casually. For those who cannot deliver their sincerity, they would rather be alone.
There is a saying that goes like this: either lonely or vulgar.
What kind of people do you choose to be with and what kind of people you will eventually become.
In other words, the people around you, the friends you make, and the circle you are in will have a subtle influence on you.
The difference is that people with high levels can maintain themselves no matter what environment they are in, and will not lower their attitude to societies, nor will they cling to their connections for the sake of profit.
In other words, people with high levels often refuse to be ineffective social interaction. They do not need to be sociable or too many friends. They always maintain a perfect distance when getting along with others, not far or close.
The reason is that they have already seen through the relationship between people and are used to being alone. At the same time, we also know the importance of time and do not want to be consumed by ineffective social interaction. Therefore, they can keep moving towards their goals without being disturbed by external voices.
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Author: A long-termist who loves words, rationality and sensibility coexist. If you like this article, please leave a message in the comment area to interact with me~
