has a sentence: "Everything is related to the four words 'unconscious'. At this moment, you get up unknowingly, and after a while, you go down unknowingly. Things of fate are very wonderful."
can gradually make a fortune because people have certain advantages and then transform them into rising momentum and momentum. And gradually going downhill is because people do not have the advantage and can only get worse and worse.
If you want to succeed, to be rich and live a stable life, these wishes are not easy to realize.
In the TV series, we found that the protagonists in it are basically lucky, noble people and opportunities. Therefore, we also feel that we are the protagonists in real life.
After half of our life, we suddenly realized that itself is not the protagonist in the real world, maybe it is not even a supporting role, it is just a passerby in the world.
Can you say that passers-by are not lucky? This is not certain. You should know that fate is created by yourself and you will be blessed by yourself. Things like fate are not absolute. Perhaps, the turning point lies with us.
people will have good fortune and fortune when they walk uphill. These noble appearances are in accordance with God's will. We need to grasp it well.
1. Being able to bend and stretch is a blessing.
Lu Mengzheng said that when Han Xin , there were no three meals a day, and when you meet, you would hang three feet of jade seal on your waist.
When Han Xin was in trouble, he still needed to bury someone else's crotch to survive, and even eating was a problem. After surviving these hardships, Han Xin encountered an opportunity to become a general under the command of the King of Han and command millions of soldiers.
A person is talented on the one hand, and whether he can "bend and stretch" is another.
can only stretch but not bow his head. No matter how capable he has, he will be useless in a hero. will only be defeated by the enemy in the end. It is really a pity.
and can both stretch and bow his head, then he is like a "hidden dragon". He hides when there is no chance, and soars into the sky when there is a chance to realize his ambitions.
is like a lone wolf. When encountering a strong enemy, try not to fight against it. The bottom line is to avoid it. It only launched a thunder attack and killed it with one blow. This is the way to "development".
2. Hardness and softness are both good and good.
There is a saying in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms": "A general should use both hardness and softness, and should not rely on his courage."
A capable general should have two sides, one is hard and the other is feminine. Only when the two are combined can people stand invincible. Just relying on the courage to move forward will eventually lead to a tough situation.
The concept of "hardness and softness" comes from Taoist . Taoist Laozi believes that water is the wisest in nature. Because it doesn't need to fight with others, it is already the king of all rivers.
Why is "water" so powerful? because it is both hard and soft. When calm, the water surface is sparkling, making people feel that the years are quiet and there is no worries in the world. When you get angry, the waves are stormy and the tides are surging.
All the femininity is silently accumulating energy. All hardness is reflected after the accumulation of force. This dark, bright, weak, and strong can change in an instant.
As a human being, one should be like "water". On the surface, it looks amiable, but in fact it has the means of King Kong and is better than others.
3. Fighting for a long time without fighting for a while is a blessing.
There is a long-distance runner who was behind when he first started running and was at the end of the team.
People looked at the top of the group running very fast, so they cheered "Come on", but they disdained him and thought that he was at the end, so what hope could he have? After running twenty kilometers, people found out how the last athlete runs easier and easier, and the speed has also accelerated , and has already run to the front?
After another ten kilometers, he was already at the forefront and left the second place far away. There is no doubt that he ended up winning the championship. In this regard, someone interviewed him: "Why do you run so slowly in front and so fast in back?"
He responded: "Run slowly in front is to make the body adapt to the environment and stretch the muscles. When the body stretches behind, you can continue to exert force. The temporary failure in front is to make the person behind laugh to the end."
Life is the same, winning for a while is nothing. Only by making yourself laugh to the end can you be considered the biggest winner.
4. Pretend to be a pig and eat tiger, and make money in silence.
The ancestors said that pretending to be a pig and eating a tiger, and making a fortune in silence.
If you want to eat a tiger, what should a lion do? That is to disguise yourself as a "pig" and let the tiger take it lightly. In just this moment, the lion can launch a raid and kill the tiger.
If you want to get rich, how should we do better? The best way to do is not to show off or be arrogant, but to make yourself gradually silent and make money quietly so that others don’t know.
If you let others know your intentions, others will hinder your development momentum. On the contrary, if you endure to the extreme and your strength is getting stronger and stronger, then who dares to underestimate you?
"Trendy Business" has this principle, that is, is in business, makes money without saying a word, does not reveal anything, and makes your own world where others don't know.
If ordinary people want to go uphill, they should follow the principle of "making money in silence". At least, your strength will become stronger and stronger, and no enemy will target you, so you are very stable.
text/Shushan Youlu
