Meet the sadness of life, and make happiness wine
It is late autumn. When we move towards nature, we can see the scene of yellow leaves falling. Falling leaves return to their roots is a kind of yearning and a kind of helplessness. People with affectionate and affectionate temperament will inevitably have a hint of sadness. However, from the perspective of natural cycles, this fallen leaf returns to its roots is not a new beginning. A leaf, from exciting prosperity to a complete mission falling into the dust, has experienced sorrow, but it can provide nourishment to the big tree. In another way, it is waiting for the next year to sprout and rebirth and bloom beautiful hope.
Life is like a tree, and we also have to experience countless sadness of falling leaves. We use different mentality and different ways of dealing with each other, and we will naturally have different results. Sometimes the sadness of fallen leaves in life suppresses our self-confidence and makes people feel more depressed. The big trees in life are getting worse day by day and gradually wither. In a positive life, treating the sorrow of falling leaves as the norm in life. It is better to accept calmly. Whether it is joy or sorrow, laugh or tears, let it float by naturally. I am still the same person, and I will not change my original intention.
Life is unavoidable. No matter where such suffering comes from and what way it will end, what should come will come after all. We do not believe in fate, but the wind and rain cannot be changed by human resources. Facing reality and accepting all the things that go with the flow may make us calmer inside and minimize the harm caused by sadness.
Faced with the sorrow of life, the best ending is to make it into a wine for life. We must do three compulsory courses in life.
The first lesson is to cultivate one's character in daily self-cultivation. In our lives, some people are not surprised by the praise and disgrace, are not anxious when encountering things, and are calm in dealing with them. This is the psychological quality developed in daily life habits. If we do not have such innate conditions, we must constantly cultivate ourselves and cultivate ourselves in the acquired nature and be able to cultivate ourselves into steel. The so-called self-cultivation and character cultivation, simply put, is to keep one's heart calm and not be disturbed by joy, anger, sorrow and happiness. No matter what happens in the outside world, we can look at it calmly, close our hearts, ignore the things outside the window, and remain unmoved, and there is no distinction between sorrow and joy.
The second lesson is to think more and more about the benefits when encountering things. The reason why many people suffer is not because they encounter many hardships, but because they always think things are particularly serious and always take them into the ditch. They can never go into that painful circle. The matter is not big, the harm is not small, and it is entirely caused by themselves. The most important thing is that they can't get out. There are nine out of ten kinds of suffering in life. Life is so long, it is inevitable to encounter sad things. If we encounter problems, we can think more about the benefits, give ourselves more positive hints, and don’t bring ourselves into the ditch. This may make us more free and free, and the pressure in our hearts will be less.
The third lesson is to solve problems with actions. Everything must be settled. No matter what the reason is, if you cause trouble, you will have to find a way to solve it yourself. If the matter is not solved, the hardship will always be there, and you will feel uncomfortable every day. No matter how big the matter is, you must tell yourself to keep calm, calm down first, and think carefully about solutions to problems. Only by solving the difficult problems with actions can you return to normal life from the source.
No matter what you encounter in life, you must give yourself hope to live. In the darkness, turn yourself into a beam of light. When no one warms you, you must also learn to give yourself a smile. If you think it through in your heart, let everything go. No matter how much sadness you encounter in your life, you can still make a happy wine.
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