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"Hey, can you help me move this thing? It's a bit heavy, I can't move it." The girl said.
"Oh, thank you for your likes, I admire you very much, but I have someone I like." said the girl.
"Hey, your sunshine and kindness attracted me, I like you very much." said the girl.
The girl always expressed her inner thoughts with a simple and bright smile on her face, and that girl was never me.
"The girl is so generous and elegant, it's really attractive." Azhu and I said this.
"Well, I like this kind of girl too, generous and open, and it makes people feel very good when they see it." I said.
"Yes! It's timid and not arrogant, and there will always be less charm. No matter what, girls should be more confident." Azhu said.
I was silent and began to think in my heart: When can I live like that?
You see that she blushed like a red apple
"You don't have to be that thin, and you didn't do anything, why are you embarrassed?"
"You just can't let go, you are thick-skinned, you say it if you want it, and you refuse if you don't like it. What's the matter?"
"This child is easy to be shy, thin-skinned, and very quiet." 360° contrast between
and that girl with a smile is always said like this.
My thin skin is really a double meaning superposition: First, the skin on the face is literally thin, and it is easy to blush; second, the thin skin on the face is extended, and the heart is sensitive and embarrassed.
In this case, a series of tags such as not daring to speak, shrinking, timid, and not being generous were posted on me.
"Look at the girl, dressing and behaving like her, she is considered a girl." The adult pointed at the female classmate who came and called me to go to school with me and said this.
I lowered my head and said nothing.
Also, when I went to a restaurant to work as a waiter during the winter vacation, I often had a red face because of my thin skin. Many people have laughed at me - my colleagues told a joke and my face would be blushed immediately; when the guests who were holding weddings were toasted with a glass of wine, I felt embarrassed to have a red face.
What's more serious is that people always like to joke about other people's blushing. Now, my face turned redder. The "popularity" of
does not make people happy, but instead makes me feel illusioned of doing something wrong. So, my head was even lowered to the ground.
This kind of trouble of being restrained has always accompanied me in my growth. It was not until the last one or two years that I slowly felt that I could blush, but I don’t have to feel sorry, let alone live a cautious and humble life.
thick-skinned to make you flirt with a fry
The reason why I have this enlightenment should be related to running. After insisting on increasing the number of runnings in the last two months, I found a significant change - has become thicker!
Although my face is still so easy to blush, now I dare to hold my head up and walk forward boldly.
Last time I reviewed in in September 2022 | Be a rich woman, love your own universe said that the courtyard has a chance to have a meal, and it has been twice a month, and it was unexpectedly surprised. Putting aside the fact that I have no experience in negotiating, I actually have grown a lot.
The first advertiser to become a cooperation was when I saw a peer account owner in the group kindly recommend it, so that interested people can try to talk.
In the past, I didn’t have the courage to add it actively, especially when the courtyard was unable to touch a certain advertiser before, it felt really uncomfortable to be ignored and treated coldly.
people are always afraid of being rejected. And sensitive people will directly reject all the beginning and possibility because they are afraid of being rejected.
However, that time I actually took the initiative to add it! I still feel nervous after adding
, but in the end I thought about experiencing it and accumulating experience, so I just sting my teeth to communicate.
instead of looking forward to it too much, but there are more surprises.
Finally, the negotiation was completed. Moreover, another advertiser who had talked about before but I felt hopeless also replied, and then finalized the cooperation time.
Just like that, the courtyard had two meal experiences. (Grateful)
was not rejected as expected. I was pleased that I dared to take the first step.
If you have been so careful, you can try to step out bravely like me.
Take the first step and move forward.
During the running period, the brain blessing brought the body a lot of positive power. I don’t know if the neurons were stimulated and resurrected. Anyway, I am not as timid and scrupulous as before.
One day, my brother sent me a part-time message - I need a copywriter and asked me if it is suitable.
My first reaction at the moment is actually an inertial thinking: it is not suitable, I can't do it, I have never done it.
But in the end, I took the initiative to add the other party, and then started chatting seriously.
The last, I also had the first experience of accepting commercial drafts. When I received the royalties, I still felt like I was in a dream.
""" This feeling is very strong now. It means that I have confidence in myself, and a person who has confidence in myself will have a great chance of success in doing things.
Take a step back, even if it is not successful, the process will become more exciting.
For example, on the way back after I finished running, a barefoot uncle stared at me, and I immediately glared back with a sharper gaze.
You may be able to guess that, according to the past, my head must have been lowered immediately, and I was extremely embarrassed.
However, this time I even raised my head slightly and faced his greasy eyes directly. My thoughts at that time were: What to watch for ? I have never seen such a beautiful person! As long as I am thick-skinned, I am the most beautiful boy on this street!
You know, sometimes when walking across the street, some people whistle very loudly, and look at you maliciously, and you blush and lower your head, but he blew more vigorously. If you are fearless, you can see that the smug expression on their faces will be replaced by surprise, and your head-raising contempt becomes a shock.
" might as well be bolder in life, you really don't have that many audience. " After passing by, I read this sentence repeatedly and felt that it was really right!
When you focus on yourself, you can live a more relaxed life. The most important thing is that you will face everything in life more calmly.
" You are not bad, and you have done nothing wrong, why can't you be more confident and brave? "
people who love life have understood: There are two major misunderstandings in life, one is to show life for others, and the other is to see other people's lives. And living in the eyes of others, you will lose yourself.
So, be a shameless person, don’t live in the eyes and mouths of others, live the self you love.
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"murder in this world. You can't control what others think, but you can always believe in your own feelings. Moreover, life is long, and in the end, I have to accompany myself through all the storms.
"In terms of self-confidence, you can really be a little shameless!"
, all encouragement.
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