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Disguise is an innate ability for human beings to come. It is like children lying since childhood. This is not the good and evil of human nature, but the normal pursuit of profit and avoiding harm.
Any normal person will take measures to avoid when predicting that something unfavorable to himself is about to happen. Usually, the measures people can think of are lying or pretending.
If you want to understand the other person in life, you must first learn to know people. It is not wrong to be a person with face, but to be too face will inevitably lead you to go astray.
The more a person likes to dress up, the stronger the sense of lack. The more utilitarian the environment you are in, the more likely people will go astray. In order to prove their "ability", they will try to create an atmosphere and perform their character design at all costs.
Regarding getting rich, the old saying goes: "Make a fortune in silence."
Real rich people will not promote everywhere that they are rich, they will only act dull, and some people will even deliberately cry poor to avoid unnecessary trouble.
It is actually not difficult to see whether a person is rich. You only need to look at the following 4 points. The less rich people pay more attention to "performance".
The poorer the more you love to show off your wealth
This is how human nature is. The more you lack what you will be, the more you will deliberately show off. The poorer people are, the less willing they will let others know that they are really poor.
Some people show off their wealth to facilitate cooperation, while others show off their wealth to regain dignity. When the entire society recognizes wealth, it is inevitable that some people will disguise themselves for the sake of face.
I have met such a person who pretends to be rich in order to be faced in front of others, and his words and things he does are completely out of reality. The kind of plastic feeling is so easy to see through.
We have to admit that talking big can make people feel very happy, but this kind of pleasure is just a temporary speed of talk.
Not taking one's own fantasy as reality is a person's greatest soberness.
Everyone does not want their life to be too bad, so they pay special attention to their image in the eyes of others. So in order to satisfy one's fantasy and to make others believe in the illusion they created, they tried their best to show off in front of others to pretend that they were bad in reality.
The poorer you are, the more you love to show off your connections
Do you know why poor people like to show off their connections?
The reason is very simple. Everyone knows that this society is a society of relationships, and connections mean there are channels and resources.
When a person's poverty is already on the surface, pretending to be invisible and acting, he will try to find his face by proving his future full of forgetting.
You should know that How to recover a person's face is based on personal ability, and it has never been a false hope or the polite recognition of others. What are the connections of
? It is a network of relationships between people. But when people want to use each other and rely on each other, the lowest logic is to be evenly matched.
When you have poor abilities, no matter how many connections you have, it is just a decoration, and there is no use except to deceive yourself. People with strong abilities will not easily show their connections.
It is really sad to deceive yourself. This kind of behavior is useless except for spiritual self-comfort.
Of course, if a person knows how to comfort himself and cheer himself up, it is really good, but if this person becomes addicted to self-comfort, constantly fabricate life and even regards fantasy as reality, then many unpleasant things will happen next.
The poorer the more you like to slap the swollen face and fill the fat
The biggest sorrow for the poor is not poverty, but slap the swollen face and fill the fat . There is a very strange phenomenon in society. The poorer people like to dress up. They not only pretend but also like to compare with others. They will constantly imagine the people around them as imaginary enemies. What's more, they can feel mentally sensitive and over-interpret their every move. The most terrifying thing in life is never to be looked down upon by others, but to look down on yourself. When a person thinks he is poor from the bottom of his heart, he may really suffer from poverty for the rest of his life. If a person wants to change the status quo, he must first recognize the reality and accept the reality. Life always reflects first and then grows. When you are poor, you must admit generously that you are not rich. Slapping a swollen face and pretending to be fat will not only not change the status quo, but will also make the bad situation worse again. Some people may say: You cannot admit that you are poor, it will have a label effect. The sentence is indeed true, but it does not apply to everyone. Tags are really difficult to tear, but not everyone in this society is qualified to be labeled. If you are just an ordinary person, there is no need to create such unnecessary worries. You may not believe it, people with inferiority are always impatient. This statement may be somewhat different from the "lower self-esteem" that everyone understands in daily life, but it is closer to reality. The more inferior a person is, the less he is, the less willing he wants others to see his humility, so he tries his best to hide it, and even often argues with people around him. Inferiority and humility are two different things. Humble people will choose to shut up after realizing their shortcomings and then work hard to improve themselves. Inferior people are not only unwilling to admit it, but also feel conceited. If you observe carefully, you will find that those poor and inferior people in life are always unable to accept reality calmly, and either quibble or pretend to be invisible in the face of facts. They often use their temper to hide their inner anxiety. What yelling can bring them not only emotional venting, but also a sense of mental security. This is why the aura of poor people is always not strong enough, and they cannot do it. " Taishan collapses before his color remains unchanged, elk is excited but his eyes are not instantly." No matter how active he is, he cannot solve the problem with a clear mind. Author Profile: Weichen, freelance writer, writing tutor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous. I hope to bring you spiritual relaxation through words, and I hope your life will be better after meeting my words. The poorer the more you can’t accept the facts calmly
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