We always say that people should be less angry and think more open-minded.
However, it is easy to say, but it is not that simple to really want to do this. There will always be some things that we can't ignore at all, we will only be very upset, and there will always be some people who, even if we are far away from our lives, we will not really let go.
will think of it from time to time, and whenever I think of it, I feel uncomfortable and I will still mind it very much.
will not understand why things have become like that, and will also feel that everything should not be like this.
In life, this is probably the case for everyone. There will be some people and things that you care about very much, and you will not be able to get rid of them for a long time.
has never been relieved and will always be deeply trapped in it. Once one day, I finally figured it out and let it go, everything will become a different look, and my feelings will begin to become very different.
accept it calmly and no longer gets stuck in the slightest position.
has no way to let go, whether it is for a thing or a person, many times, in the final analysis, it is actually because I have not accepted the reality at all, I am very unwilling to accept it, and I have been unable to understand it all.
cannot accept everything that happened in the past. No matter how long the time has passed, it will naturally remain in place.
has been complaining about God's unfairness, never understand why others treat me like this, and always feel that I should not have encountered those things, and I feel particularly wronged in my heart, and I can't turn it over.
is always just using the same idea, thinking about the past, using the same mood, and recalling the past.
Relieve it, and suddenly I understood that it is possible to meet all kinds of people and encounter various things in life. That is not your own problem, and it is not a big deal at all.
Anyway, you accept all good or bad things yourself, and treat everything as a kind of experience, an experience.
began to learn to look at problems from a relatively different perspective, and began to learn to accept all the gifts of life.
does not ask for everything, but it happens to be what you want. It is what you expect, nor does it ask for the choices you make. It is all right. I just want to follow my heart at that moment and live up to myself.
suddenly felt relieved.
When something is in your mind and something is under pressure, your whole person's condition will be relatively bad.
always seems to be full of worries, and always feel a little depressed, as if you can't be happy at all.
is a bit more serious, and you will not be able to integrate into the present moment. You will not be able to integrate into the people around you. You are just immersed in your own world and are always thinking about things that make you more troubled. The state like
is not very good, but it will continue for a long time.
Until one day, I suddenly realized, and suddenly I didn’t want to do this anymore. I suddenly realized that the stone pressing on my heart would disappear in an instant, and my whole body would become unprecedentedly relaxed.
can sleep well, and will no longer suffer from insomnia, and will not always dream in dreams, and will also face your days well over the years. You will not always be so uneasy and gloomy.
From the inside out, you will start to become cheerful and bright, your feelings will be very good, and give others the feeling, and it will also start to become great, making people want to get close and want to be closer.
From now on, you can devote yourself to your current life more fully than before, and you will no longer be unhappy anymore. You will always be distracted, as if you are in another world and have been wandering around all the time.
no longer looks back, just move forward.
has not let go of the past, and when walking forward, he always looks back frequently.
People and things that others have forgotten long ago, and people and things that no longer take seriously, will always take them to heart, and will always think about them silently, remember every detail clearly, just as if everything has not gone far, just happened yesterday.
Because of that past, I couldn't even accept other people. I was still muttering about the person in my memory, always hoping that after going around, I could have a possibility with the other party.
Except for the other party, you can no longer see other people, and other people can't even catch their own eyes.
If you let go, no matter what happened, you will no longer miss it all. You will only seal everything in the past, bury everything in the past, and put an end to it.
also has the ability to love other people and has the spare time to enjoy the time spent with other people.
I don’t want to watch those experiences in the past, nor will I watch them again, I will only look at the present and the future. After
, I will only keep all those people and things in my memories. I just think of them occasionally, and I no longer feel too much when I think of them. I am just calm and I will only cherish the current life and love the people who are by my side at this moment.
Real relief, don’t talk about debts or regrets.
accepts all the past as planned and digests all the digested.
is not defeated by the past and can never get up again, but treats all those not so satisfactory bits as part of yourself and as nutrients in your own life, and integrates them into your bones, no longer desire other life, and no longer always want to make a difference.
accepts the past and has also begun to become a brand new self.
has been through every day now with all your heart, so that the days now can be more exciting and exciting.
Occasionally, I hear that person’s name and what happened before, and I will only start to become very calm.
no longer cares, no longer be tired of emotions, he will only smile and say to himself, it’s great, it’s all over.
text/Tan Meng
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