As the saying goes, "Only the wisdom of the superior and the foolish are unchanged." The meaning of this sentence means that neither wise nor dull people will be easily changed. The reason is that wise people have formed their own ideas through long-term learning and constructed their own knowledge system. Therefore, they have their own clear judgments on the remarks of others. For ignorant people, because they have experienced too little things, they can only use the experience they have obtained from their long-term practice as the criterion for judgment. They remain suspicious of things they have not experienced, so it is difficult to change.
Communication is inevitable in real life. If two people want to communicate for a long time, they must have an equal knowledge system, so that the two parties can have a sense of pleasure in conversation and their relationship can last for a long time.
Everyone has a different environment for growing up and receiving different education, and the ideas formed are also different. If the gap between them is too large, it is easy to get embarrassed because of not exceeding communication. " A thousand cups of wine will be less than , and no more than half a sentence if you don't talk about it." This is the current situation.
In real life, everyone's pressure is huge. Everyone's time is precious. No one is willing to give in to themselves to make others happy. The best way to end the topic and say goodbye to leave when the exchange between the two parties cannot proceed.
The more knowledge a person accumulates, the more problems he considers. In this case, they need to find people similar to themselves to inspire their inspiration. For the public, these issues are too profound. What they value more is that the current life discusses the current family matters, and the difference in communication needs between each other determines that both parties can only go against each other.
The frequency of a person's communication with others is determined by the environment in which they are in. If a person is in a familiar environment, he will talk freely. If he is in a strange environment, he will inevitably be silent. If a person encounters a topic he is interested in, he will inevitably talk endlessly. If a person encounters a topic he does not like, he will definitely be unwilling to talk in depth.
If a person feels that a person with a high education is relatively silent, it is obviously determined by many aspects. It is difficult to think that it is because of the other party. Many times the environment has determined the result of interaction between the two parties. Everyone's communication is based on personal interests, which is difficult to change.
