When it comes to "stingy", many people's first reaction is derogatory words.
If a person is stingy, then we will also be associated with "stingy" and "not worth dating".
But, in fact, the world is not so grand that it can make a person better, and not everything can be so grand.
When you shouldn't be generous, you will only waste yourself in the end.
is a little "stingy" in this world, and it is often not a bad thing.
Especially in the following three aspects, the more stingy you are, the easier it is to get lucky and make your life wonderful.
"stingy" to health
Writer Wu Hao said:
"Life is actually a fixed amount of wealth God has stored in everyone's account. No one knows how much it is, but he consumes it every day. Once overdrawn, you have no possibility of repaying it."
The body really cannot withstand tossing.
If you don’t know how to protect your body and don’t care about the body at all, then a thousand-mile dike may often be destroyed by an ant hole.
I once saw a story like this:
A middle-aged man always fought very hard when he was young. In order to make more money, he never cared about his body.
Working overtime and staying up late has become commonplace, and drinking and socializing are also rare.
In his heart, he is in good health. He can withstand such a rhythm, and health problems will not happen to him at all.
He only became scared until he fainted in the company and went to the hospital for examination and found various physical problems.
But even if he paid attention to it afterwards and forced himself to live a regular life, the physical damage was irreparable.
"Book of Life and Death in the World" mentioned:
"Loss is complex and rarely happens for no reason."
For health, don't always feel that staying up a few nights and drinking a few times will not have any impact on the body.
Because health problems are accumulated bit by bit. If you don’t care about your body, you will eventually pay a heavy price.
So, you must be more stingy about health at all times.
When you can ensure that your body does not have any problems, then you can create wealth, pursue love, protect your dreams, and embrace a wonderful future.
"stingy" to time
When we were young, perhaps, we always felt that there was really a lot of time and there was a lot of time for ourselves to squander.
But when we feel that everything is in time, time will pass silently. When we really feel the urgency, it is too late to regret it again.
Sanmao said:
"The reason why people are sad is because we can't keep the years."
Time is the most ruthless, and time never waits for people. Only by being "stingy" with time can we do more things and embrace more beauty.
knows such a man.
He is a person who works very hard and cherishes time very much.
When he first started working, he worked hard every day at work, and when he went home at night he was eager to study and improve his skills.
For him, many people around him advised him not to be too anxious about some things, and it would be nothing to waste any time.
However, he did not relax at all because of such a voice.
So three years later, basically no one who entered the work with him was transferred, but he became the top leader all the way.
Huxley said:
"Time is the most non-private. It is twenty-four hours for anyone, and time is the most private. It is not twenty-four hours for anyone."
In this life, time is really not as much as we imagined.
Those who always feel that it is still early and squander time will eventually give him the greatest regret.
And that kind of, if you are stingy about time, use every minute to make meaningful things and to make yourself worth it, time will not let down every point of his efforts.
"stingy" about money
Zhang Ailing said:
"I like money because I have never suffered from the hardships of money. I don't know the disadvantages of money, I only know the benefits of money."
, such as "money", it sounds quite vulgar.
is born in the world, so who can completely get rid of the world? Always smelling like a stinky smell, maybe it really makes people look obsessed.
But what we cannot deny is that money is the basis for us ordinary people to live, work, and even have confidence.
Be more stingy about money, and in the end we will get the feedback that money gives us, and these feedbacks may change our entire life.
I once watched a video like this:
A woman found evidence of her husband hanging out after five years of marriage.
For women, being betrayed is a particularly unbearable pain, and too many women choose to endure.
But she divorced decisively and went out to relax.
Where does the confidence that supports her free and easy come from? In fact, it is the "money" she has accumulated over the years.
In the five years since she got married, she has never given up on her own growth and never squandered money. Instead, she saved all the money she earned.
It is precisely because of her enough money in her pocket that she can still be herself decently in the face of changes.
Xiaosha Sister said:
"Money is the applause given to you by the real world. If you make you unhappy, you can put the wings of money and fly away. You can do not do what you don’t want to do, and see people you don’t want to meet."
is stingy about money. It is not because you value money too much, but because only with money can we face any test questions given by life calmly, steadily and freely, without fear, and avoid anxiety.
"stingy", it sounds quite bad.
But for life, proper stinginess is very important to each of us and is something we must practice in life.
more than a long time to live. I hope you can be stingy about these three things and live a happier and more comfortable life.
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Author: Li Yu Weiliang, a post-90s writer who can be rational and emotional, likes to express personal opinions in words, bringing you spiritual healing, emotional resolving, and life insights.
