In life, sometimes we feel that it is very ordinary because we almost do repetitive things every day, but sometimes, some sudden changes will disrupt our originally ordinary life and even make us unacceptable. This may be the essence of life. Under its seemingly ordinary appearance, it is full of sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty, which can be said to be full of all flavors.
Everyone is looking forward to living a happy and carefree life, but it is often far from reality. When you feel upset, it is best to stay silent and think about the following three questions carefully. Maybe you will suddenly feel enlightened.
1. Life is impermanent, you must learn to accept it. The essence of life is impermanence, and you don’t know whether what happens next will bring you surprises, disappointments, or sparse and ordinary things. Everyone wants a sense of security, but no matter how big the status or how much wealth you have, no one can satisfy you.
Therefore, in the face of the impermanent changes in life, the first thing we need to learn is to accept. Whether it is good or bad, only when you accept it, your mentality is stable, no longer so worried about gains and losses, and worry, because you know that what should come will come, accept it, adapt to it, and try to change it, and you will definitely find a sunny self and a better future.
2. Live in the present and reduce delusions. If you cannot change your mindset, on the one hand, you need time to settle down, and on the other hand, you need to find another thing to replace it to make up for the gap in your heart. For example, study hard, work hard, develop your own interests and hobbies, etc. Since you are upset and unable to settle down, then ignore it.
Choose another thing you are interested in, or set a goal for yourself, strive for this goal, and move forward without looking back, and truly sink into it, and you will find that the obstacles that have troubled you before seem to disappear instantly.
3. Look forward forever, no matter who you are, please still have ideals and are full of motivation. A life without ideals is boring, and a life without goals is like a year. No matter who you are or what age you are, you should find something for yourself. If you can’t be idle, then be busy. You can do it for life, career, family, society, sentient beings, etc.
If you do your best and constantly contribute yourself, you will feel that life becomes extremely fulfilling and life is originally of extraordinary significance. Such a life is valuable, shining and has a bright future. Always keep the power of upward and goodness, and you will definitely reach the other side of light.
