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1 When people reach middle age, they have experienced many ups and downs in life, and know that they should remain calm when encountering things; they have seen the changes in their hearts in human relationships, and know that they should rely on themselves in everything; they have seen through the coldness of the world in life, and understand that silence is the wisdom of life.
is getting older, and my heart changes as well. In the past, I would have to care about everything and compete for winning or losing. Now, when I encounter things, I will become more and more calm and have a mind to adapt to changes with the same change.
"All things in the world have always been ordinary things. We will encounter all kinds of failures, and we can also get all kinds of happiness. Only by balancing ourselves between success and failure, sadness and joy can we make our lives more comfortable."
The most beautiful possession in life is that after we reach middle age, we can have a plain heart. In ordinary days, live simply, flow in a deep and quiet way, and watch the changes in the world.
People live their whole lives, and everyone must develop a calm and relaxed aura. When experiencing various human feelings, use quiet to replace impatience, calmness to replace impulse, and silence to replace excessive words.
When people reach middle age, they must learn to be silent. Silence is a quiet language and a calm power. When dealing with various changes in human hearts and impermanence in the world, silence can bring you the best mentality.
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person reaches middle age, and life is still and deep,
person reaches middle age. His life gradually disappears from the noise and bustle, and instead he lives slowly and quietly. My heart no longer likes a scheming life, simplicity is my greatest pursuit.
When you understand silence and silence, you will know how to deal with everything in life. When you encounter difficulties, you don’t have to complain to others or be hysterical. Solving it slowly by yourself is better than pleasing others.
"As a middle-aged person, he has his own ideas in everything. He neither believes in other people's gossip, nor goes around it. He has his own cognition and his own judgment. He does not cling to others or belittles himself."
Life requires a quiet and deep flow mentality so that he can stay away from right and wrong. Don’t talk too much about everything, and don’t blame everyone. Keep a mature and steady state and let yourself live quietly.
Some worries are you that you have to let go of when you should; some old people that you should forget are forgotten. The past is like smoke, the old things are like dust, and they will eventually drift away with the wind. No matter how persistent you are, you can't stop a breeze and don't take it lightly with yourself.
The second half of life is our own home court, and we should all live for ourselves. Don’t worry too much, don’t participate too much, enjoying the joy of your own is the real happy life.
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1 When people reach middle age, learn to be silent
Silence is gold, and knowing silence is a great skill. When encountering various things, you can be calm and calm, and be cautious in your words and actions, so that you can leave more room for yourself.
Many people always think that they are the savior of this world. They have to get involved in everything, and they have to take care of themselves no matter what. Little do you know that the more you talk, the more you meddled with other people’s business, the more others will hate you.
"In this society, it is not that if you say too much, others will believe in you; it is not that if you care too much, others will respect you. The respect and admiration of others for you actually come from the relationship between you who are not tired of getting along with each other."
You must know how to behave and do things, and you must be responsible for your affairs.You must know what to say at what time and what to do on what occasions. Only the appropriate words can make others look at you differently.
blindly show yourself and express your opinions blindly will only make others bored. They don't think you are kind-hearted, they just think you are intentionally showing off.
When you reach middle age, you must learn to be silent. Don’t talk gossip, don’t talk bitterly, don’t say flaunt, don’t say sarcastic words, you must have good thoughts, be a silent self, and live a life of calmness.
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person reaches middle age, let everything go naturally
person reaches middle age, the training of time can make yourself slowly understand how to settle. No longer care about small things, nor are they ecstatic and sad because of temporary gains and losses. Their mood becomes quieter and quieter, and they become more and more indifferent to the circumstances.
If the heart does not move, what will the wind do? The turmoil in life is actually all due to inner anxiety. Being uneasy in your heart will make your emotions irritable. If you do anything, you feel that God is targeting you.
"In fact, God is fair to everyone. Everyone will encounter troubles and everyone will encounter happy things. As long as you calm your mind, there will be nothing you can't handle."
When people reach middle age, learning to let things go is both a choice and a ability. If you take the gains and losses in life lightly, you will not have so much entanglement in your heart; if you look at the troubles in life, you will not be so tired.
When people reach middle age, the water flows deep and deep. Let’s watch the flowers bloom and fall, happiness is in the hearts of the people.
When you reach middle age, you must learn to be silent. May you and I encourage each other!
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