people sometimes even perfunctory themselves. When my colleagues sent me WeChat, they probably didn’t feel good. In the past, I always felt that I knew everything, and I always felt that others were fools. I looked down on others and didn’t say anything, but I always had a negative attitude towards life and would complain no matter what happens. He always talked about his girlfriend, but in the end, he didn't get the one. Maybe he really didn't know what his problem was.
I saw an article before, and the most impressive sentence if a person is in his thirties and has not yet gotten married, do you really have to find out the reason for yourself, no house or car? No ability, no career aspiration, no motivation, no responsibility, no stable income, no understanding of one's positioning, no courage to change oneself, no attentiveness and steadfast work... Maybe one of the reasons is your fatal injury, I believe many of us have several of them.
In fact, these shortcomings are not a problem. The most important thing is whether you understand and know your own shortcomings, and whether you have the courage to change, overcome your own shortcomings, and make yourself an excellent person. Each of us has shortcomings and is inferior to others, but we must learn to change, work hard, and learn to make ourselves better and better.
may not see your shortcomings in many people's eyes, and always feel that you are excellent. Why others cannot see your own strengths? This may be to find your own reasons. You may think that you are excellent and have advantages all over your body, but in the eyes of others, it may be a disadvantage, which is very annoying.
People should learn to think from the perspective of others and look at problems from the perspective of others. Some people cannot see it because their cognition has not been achieved yet. People are not afraid of not having the ability or ability, but they do not have the heart to be motivated to learn.
said that back to my colleague, I usually have a good relationship with me and chat with me a lot. I can probably guess what kind of person he is. He has no goals and directions in doing things, and has no ambition. To put it bluntly, it is a bit too selfish. This may be an important reason why he has been talking about his girlfriend but has not found her girlfriend! Do things according to your own wishes, and you are unwilling to do more, and you are unwilling to work hard to do well. Another thing is that he has a bad temper and sometimes he will say that you don’t want to talk to him. Maybe sometimes he offended others and didn't know yet. I don’t want to listen to what others say. Today I chatted with me, and I said that you are easy to work now and have a lot of time. If you have nothing to do, learn more and improve yourself. It will be good for yourself. He said perfunctorily, you are right. I am doing after-sales maintenance and I am learning these things now.
In fact, what he is doing is his business. It is difficult for people nowadays to give you some good suggestions and suggestions. How you live has nothing to do with others. If others can tell you so much, at least you should accept it sincerely, after all, it is for your own good. But his perfunctory attitude had no effect on me, but he himself did not realize that if he did not change himself, he would suffer. We should not be perfunctory to others, we may be perfunctory to ourselves. Just like at work, many people think that if you are perfunctory at your boss, I just need to get my salary. In fact, what we are perfunctory is just ourselves. If you don’t do things well in a company, others will work hard. If you do too much, the boss will just find someone to replace you, but you have lost a stage and an opportunity to improve your abilities. You think you are perfunctory, but in fact you are just wasting your own time and refusing to grow and improve yourself. Then you can only fall behind and your impact on others will never exceed your impact on yourself. Your negative attitude is just perfunctory in your own life!
