Looking back throughout the ages, no one is a noble person or a commoner; no one has always been the focus of everyone's attention, and no one is inseparable from society and people.
The earth will still move away from anyone, society will still develop if anyone leaves, and unit will still operate if anyone leaves. Therefore, only by despising yourself and valuing others will you adapt to society and make yourself live happily and happy.
Similarly, valuing others is a kind of open-mindedness, a kind of humility, and a kind of maturity. A person who is good at valuing others means that he can see other people's strengths and will use other mountains to make up for his own shortcomings.
A person who is good at valuing others means that if he knows himself very well, he will be calm and not be vain.
In fact, it doesn’t matter whether you can do it immediately. What’s important is that by raising your value for yourself, you can set a benchmark for yourself, just like setting a price for the product, which has the flavor of “disclosure” so that when the “customers” come to your door, they can “deal” at the new price!
In real life, there are many people who are willing to make their own value higher in order to achieve a certain purpose. Many of us are willing to make this behavior "Brave X"
This behavior is obviously undesirable, but we cannot control whether others can do this. It depends on how we deal with this kind of thing ourselves.
You can choose to refute them on the spot, or you can choose to let him continue bragging every time you hear it, but in this society, more and more people choose to ignore it!
In modern careers, people have also become a commodity, and everyone's value is different. Some people have an annual salary of 50,000, while others may have an annual salary of hundreds of thousands or even millions.
Under certain conditions, merchants will also adjust the price of goods appropriately according to market conditions. Some customers are so strange that they don’t buy the goods when they are low. When the price increases, they have to rush to buy them and praise them for the quality. In fact, the things are exactly the same. The same is true for
people. Their value is too low. Customers and people around you look down on you. They increase their value. Instead, they think you are really amazing and a big talent! So in some cases, you can raise your value appropriately.
There are two situations where "self-raising your value" are: one is that you are indeed valuable, but others do not comment enough. In this case, you should be more arrogant and cannot stick to the so-called virtue of "humility is the best", otherwise others will think that you do not have that talent at all.
Of course, you don’t have to lift yourself up very high, but at least it must be equivalent to your talents.
