1. People always like to compare with others to see who is better than themselves, and who is not as good as themselves. In fact, what is at the bottom of your worries and sorrows is never the misfortune and pain of others, but your own attitude.
2. No matter how outstanding you are, there will always be people who are unbearable to you. No matter how unbearable you are, some people think it is the only one of the limited editions. The value of life lies in your ability to respect yourself, and the meaning of life lies in your hard work and progress.
3. A person’s open-mindedness is reflected in his down-and-out time. A person's cultivation is reflected in his anger. A person's considerate is reflected in his sadness. A person's maturity is reflected in the decision. Everyone is willing to do what they like, and only when a person does what he should do is growth.
4. Life is not fair in nature. Some people are born to grow cute, some are born to eat and not fat, and some are born to enjoy the fruits of their own. I hope you also have your own superpowers, such as not being defeated by life.
5. Every choice is a life pattern. And the so-called fate is the result of choices again and again.
6. Emotional intelligence determines "Can you realize that others will be unhappy", while character tests "Do you want to make others unhappy?" Most people have the emotional intelligence of "aware that others will be unhappy", but they do not have the character of "not wanting others to be unhappy".
7. Time will not be disappointed. Try to be a lovely person. Don’t envy anyone or blame anyone. On your own path, appreciate your own scenery, meet your own happiness, and remember to applause yourself!
8. The compulsory course in life is to accept impermanence, and the elective course in life is to let go of persistence. When life falls, remember that you must fall to the bottom you have never experienced before you can stand at the peak you have never reached.
9. There is no perfect thing in this world, let alone perfect people. The key is to know what you really want. Get what you want, you will definitely lose another part. If you want everything, you will only get nothing.
10. There are too many reasons why there is no answer in this world. Too many answers don't have why. This road can only be walked alone. No matter what posture you take.
11. No matter when, you need to give yourself a clear bottom line, because many times some people will wipe out your bottom line bit by bit. When you have no bottom line, you are completely controlled by others.
12. Everyone who appears in your life has a reason. Those who like you give you warmth and courage. The people you like will teach you to love and self-support. People you don't like teach you tolerance and respect. People who don’t like you will make you reflect on yourself and grow. Everyone has a reason for their appearance and is grateful for it.
13. Why are most people complaining about the present? Because complaining before requires good memory, complaining later requires rich imagination, and complaining now only requires a tireless mouth.
14. If you are standing in a crooked position, don’t blame the sky for falling; if you are living at the bottom, you don’t have to worry about losing confidence.
15. If you have nothing, you should ignore others' words that you are a poor person; if you are from a humble background, you should ignore others' contempt for you; if you have no background and relationships, you must ignore others' feelings of being in a smooth life; if a person has no direct interest relationship with you, you must ignore his moral values, values and outlook on life.
16. Don’t be wronged by others. Others may not feel sorry for you. Those who look down on you will regard your sincerity as nothing. Those who want to leave you will regard your retention as entanglement.
17. All the surprises and good luck in the world are the gentleness and kindness you have accumulated. Be a gentle, pure and strong person, warm yourself and illuminate others!
18. In this world, there is no one-time and perfect choice. You cannot have spring flowers and autumn moons at the same time, you cannot have fruits and flowers at the same time, you cannot have all the benefits of you.You have to learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can get something. You must learn to accept the incompleteness and sorrow of life, and then be calm.
19. There are too many questions in life that cannot be answered, and too many answers cannot be understood why. Everything is fixed in the dark. What we need to do is to be in good times with a kind heart and be at peace with adversity with a calm mind.
20. People should be strong by themselves; their hearts should be healed by themselves. There are always some worries that cannot be shared with others; there are always some pain that cannot be expressed everywhere.
21. Most people who complain that they can’t find a job are not really unable to find a job, but that they are unwilling to start from the bottom. Their attitude is like society owes them a job. They always think that the government or company must be responsible for their hardships, and many people never want to fight for themselves. In fact, most people can do something as long as they are willing to fight from the bottom.
