Perhaps, I am already tired of quarrels, hurt, have a deep hostility, or are sarcastic, and say the opposite, express it abnormally, and it will be uncomfortable to not say it. As the saying goes: Language is a double-edged sword. Good words are like spring breeze blowing on the face, and body and mind are happy; unpleasant words are like sharp swords piercing the heart, and blood is seen from the sword. This kind of scene is often seen: it is very simple to discuss, but because of inconsistent views, the two of them talked and their blood pressure soared and gradually rose to the level of character and morality to label each other, and use a strong overwhelming way of communication and communication. The eyes are not eyes, nose, and nose are not mutually disliked, and then both sides suffer. However, the problem is still there and has not been solved. It takes a lot of time to repair the secondary damage caused by a quarrel, or it may spread to multiple damages. The problem is shelved and cannot be solved, and even evolves to the point where the one who refuses to give in to each other will ignore anyone else. That is why we favor every warm, understanding and benign interaction.
3 Rare some of the pure and rare qualities in those people, and those who use gentle soften the once rough and hard soul, so that she loves life, loves the workplace, and loves the environment she lives in soft touch and care. Once, people and the Internet were popular with vicious tongues, sharp words, clever words, cleverness, and mutual confrontation, and they were comparing to confront others. Whether this matter is right or wrong or not, the public opinion orientation includes jokesters, talk shows, crosstalk and Douyin, which is also clever in criticizing people, has led to the public's thinking orientation and mistakenly believed that this way of speaking is fashionable.
I thought the confrontation was "A Q" spiritual victory method . I was afraid that over time, I would develop this habit. No matter the leader, elder, peer, or junior, no matter the occasion, no awe, I would be able to speak out. Little do they know that after a long period of confrontation, they will be self-righteous and arrogant. The so-called killing of three thousand people will harm oneself eight hundred. Such communication methods unknowingly affect normal daily social interactions, otherwise they will hurt others without knowing that. I think humility and gentleness are the best lubricants for social interaction. They can not only relieve emotions, but also add points to your own virtue. I often like to say one thing: speak well, express 8 normally, say nice things.
provides some strategies that can solve problems without hurting people: never say rhetorical questions: "What else?", "How do I know?", "Did you understand?" This tone has a great side effect and has its own attack attributes. The condescending and oppressive feeling makes people feel uncomfortable. Please travel with your rational mind at any time. Don’t get emotional first when solving problems. Don’t argue with people with emotions. If you are excited, he says 3+2=7, you must immediately say that he is right. Shut up at this time is more important than winning. Only when you are calm can you solve the problem. However, afterwards, Zhuge Liang either helps or comforts the difficulties, and avoids "Why did I advise you to come?" If you are really helpless, please shut up and accompany you properly. It is not bad to listen
