I remember there was a saying on the Internet that was particularly good. In our lives, part of the reason why we feel tired is because we want to live, while the other part is because we compare with others.
Life is not easy in life, but we cannot live well for ourselves. Instead, we are unable to face the face all day long, which only increases many worries. In fact, sometimes our worries are not that we cannot get, but that we see others getting the imbalance in our hearts.
Once a person's heart is unbalanced, his troubles will come naturally, pain will come to him, happiness will leave him, and every meaningless comparison will leave a shadow in his heart until he will make a living.
If you always remember others' success and gain, you will lose the beauty of life in repeated destruction, and this obsession is undoubtedly a torture for yourself.
I remember a book said that if you always compare with others, it means the beginning of your miserable life. We all know that in real life, if there is no comparison, there will be no so much harm. The damage of
is entirely caused by ourselves, because we are determined to compare with others, staring at other people's lives all day long, competing with ourselves everywhere in secret, and when others don't know what's going on, you are already in great pain.
What is the meaning of a life like this? Pay more attention to your own affairs, work hard to live your own life, and persist in making some progress every day. This is the essence of your life.
If you just compare with others, even if you win, so what? It can only be said that you are a little better than others for the time being, and it does not mean long-term.
I remember a writer once said that when a person lives to a certain extent, he will work hard to pursue a simple life. How simple is it? It’s just two words, live well.
I think that being able to live well, being able to live with dignity, not drag others down, and not making things difficult for yourself is the greatest success in life.
The kind of person who struggles to compare with others all day long will only make their lives worse and worse. To win a better life, the best way is to not worry about the future and be happy with the present, because the present is the entire meaning of our life.
The best state of life is to not think about the past, not be afraid of the future, and just think about the moment. Only by living every day well can you live a good life.
Taking advantage of the beautiful autumn scenery, walk out the door and be in the warm sunshine to make yourself happy and happy. I believe you will get better and better. Come on, work hard.