Don’t just love the warm sun, you should love the wind and rain, it purifies your soul; don’t just accept the light, you should also enjoy the night, it allows you to see the stars; don’t just welcome joy, you should also endure sadness, it sublimates your soul. Don’t just want a smooth journey, you should try harder and more. It tempers your will; don’t just welcome praise, you should also accept criticism, it allows you to see the flaws.
When we were young, we believed that loving someone means giving without regrets. But later on, we realized that if we really did this, it would be the greatest harm to this relationship. Love is a mutual and a mutual nourishment process. Only love that nourishes each other can last. Any relationship that only one-sided efforts will eventually fall like fireworks.
Many times, we are always naive and always imagine happiness in the distance. Only after naivety did we realize that the future was far away and we had endless imaginations. We had designed the most perfect path to life, but we rarely went to. So we know that what we experience is real, what we have is our own, and imagination is like a cloud, which can only be dotted in the emptiness of our hearts and cannot be dissolved in life.
In this world, there is no one-and-one and perfect choice. You cannot have spring flowers and autumn moons at the same time, and you cannot have fruits and flowers at the same time. It is impossible that all the benefits are yours. You have to learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can get something. You must learn to accept the cruelty and sorrow of life, and then be in a harmonious mood. Because this is life.
Even if you don’t meet, don’t speak or send messages, you will always leave a place in your heart and keep someone safely. In a word, in a matter, some people disappear from your life. Everyone has such a person in their hearts, who is no longer a lover and cannot become a friend. Time passes, it doesn’t matter whether you like it or not, you will always think of you very accustomed to it. And hope you are all well.