Text/Xiamo
01, Volume Beginner
Life is like building a house, bricks and tiles are stacked together, and as time passes, the house is taking shape day by day.
Some people cut corners when building a house, which made the house not solid and crumbling; some people are down-to-earth and strict in themselves when building a house, and the house remains firm after years.
Ann Li said: "In my past experience, the harder I worked, the better the things I found. When I got it, I felt like everything was destined. But if you don't work hard, what you got may be something else, and that result also seems destined."
Everything in the world is a cycle of cause and effect. What kind of life you have chosen to live will get corresponding results when you get old.
When I was young, if I had not managed my life carefully and planned my life in my later years, then the miserable evening scene was also expected.
Fifty years old is an important watershed in life. There are signs of whether a person's life is good or not. The following three things will consume your blessings, please pay attention.
02. The relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, and they have lived their own lives for many years. Is the quality of life in my later years high? In fact, when I was young, I can see it in my attitude towards my partner.
When I was young, if the couple had a disagreement but did not pay attention to it, they had never mended the loopholes in the marriage, which led to the increasingly distant relationship between the couple.
A marriage that has lost its love is like two roommates who share the rent, full of cold and disappointment.
If you live your own life all year round, your heart is not together, and when you get old, you will be even more reluctant to support each other and travel the rest of your life.
Many people once thought that when they are old, they don’t need to rely on their partners, they have children and daughters to rely on. However, in my later years, I realized that my children have their own lives, and the ones who are around me are already heartbroken partners.
When I was young, I was not kind to my partner and showed a cold way of getting along with each other. When two people live together, they have no patience and love.
In my later years, I realized that the long-term discord between husband and wife has caused each other to lose affection.
People are old, no one cares about it, and they just have to live in a family without warmth. What is more terrifying than loneliness is that she wants to get the care of her partner, but she has already died.
Love is the person who has been with you for the longest time besides your parents. On the road of life, please cherish her and treat her well, so that you can only be warm and accompany you in your old age.
03. Before the age of fifty, spend money big, but don’t save money
people are old, and their sense of security comes from the savings in their hands.
Some people never saved money for themselves when they were young. I always feel that in my later years, a pension is enough. When I was young, I pursued "timely fun".
However, in my later years, I realized that when I have no source of income, relying solely on pension money is often not enough for living expenses. Without savings, I have to feel wronged and live with confidence.
Balzac said: "For wasteful people, money is round, but for frugal people, money is flat and can be piled up bit by piece."
Only with money can you have the confidence to live. The material basis determines the quality of life.
Before the age of fifty, I did not establish a correct view of money, spent money generously, did not save money, and when I was old, I lost my ability to work in society. If the illness followed and I had no savings, my life in my later years would be very difficult.
When you are young, you don’t save money for yourself. When you are old, you can easily become a burden for your family or children. Over time, you will be disliked.
On the road of life, please save more money for yourself as soon as possible so that you can live more confidently in your later years.
04. Children are not well trained, are unfilial, and are not grateful to
. Will a person live a happy life in his later years? In fact, it can be seen from the quality of his children.
When I was young, many people ignored their children, but in their later years, they hoped that their children would be filial to them.
In fact, in the relationships and relationships between people, you can only take back some sincerity by investing more time and love in the relationship.The same is true for raising children.
When you are young, if you don’t raise your children well, you don’t pay attention to the cultivation of their personality and qualities. Then, when children grow up, it is difficult for them to be filial to their parents and to be grateful to their parents.
The prerequisite for raising children to prevent old age is to cultivate sensible and filial children. If children are unfilial and unhappy, it is the sorrow of family education .
On the road of life, when your children are unreliable, learn to rely on yourself.
Life always needs to continue. Even if you don’t have children to support yourself, you have to find a way out for yourself.
In this life, the most reliable person is always himself. While you are young, make more plans for your future and don’t always think about “depend on” who you want.
05. Summary
On the road of life, you must learn to plan your old age and prepare for retirement in advance.
People get old and will become more willing but not capable of many things. If you are young, you can accumulate more "power" and you will be much easier in your later years.
The wife who cares about you, has money in her pocket, and is filial to her children, is a great happiness.
People live for a lifetime. We cannot predict the future, but we can live the present with our heart, avoid misfortunes, and strive to shape the life we want.
There is no medicine for regret in life. Once regret arises, there may be no chance to make up for it.
You now have the most spare time and the future is in your own hands. Work hard and plan your future life carefully, and don’t let your future regret your current self.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
