Someone said: "No one can limit you unless you agree." Many times, what limits a person is not the environment or ability, but the inherent thinking pattern.
Thinking determines destiny. How far a person can go and how high he can climb depends on whether he can constantly break the wall of thinking.
As the saying goes: Push down a wall and there will be another road in life.
Full times, the problem is not about the amount of knowledge or the level of technology, but whether you have the courage to abandon your own experience.
When you break out of the limitations of thinking, you will find that many problems are not difficult.
Let’s first look at a set of data:
1+1=1; 4+3=1; 6+6=1; 12+12=1
When you see this set of data, your first reaction will tell you that this is simply impossible!
But if we think from a different perspective, add units after each number:
1+1 mile=1 km;
4 days+3 days=1 week;
6 months+6 months=1 year;
12 hours+12 hours=1 day;
10, see if this set of equations is true!
Everyone is like this. We are often affected by past habits, experiences, rules, etc., thus forming subconscious , which allows us to have an intuitive judgment on certain issues. This is what we call inertial thinking.
Everyone is using their own thinking mode to understand the world, and this thinking mode is composed of its own experience and understanding. Therefore, different thinking patterns determine the same thing, and different people will have completely different results.
This is the gap between excellent people and ordinary people, because their thinking patterns are completely different.
" Life only has the beauty that comes out, no glory that comes out. "
If you are dissatisfied with the current situation of life, it will never be too late to change. Don’t let the current situation limit your imagination of the future, but try your best to break through your inner limitations, start by changing your concepts, and move towards better possibilities.
1. Improve the realm, and the vision determines the pattern
"What you think will become." Vision determines the height that life may reach, because it determines our goals and pursuits.
A sad fact is: everyone has dreams, but sometimes your dreams are just the starting point for others. Because it is the limitations of our vision and vision that hinder every decision and choice we make.
Is the vision that determines the position, or is the status that determines the vision? Judging from the course of struggle, it must be the former. vision and thinking determine the goal of action and the steps of realization, and also determine the height, depth and breadth that life can achieve.
Only by having a broad vision can one have the mind of "the sea accommodates all rivers, and tolerance is great"; "the mayfly in the world, and a grain of water is vast." It is hard to imagine that people with short-sighted vision and limited vision will achieve something.
You will not go further than your thoughts. When you have a broader perspective and realm, you can make smarter choices.
2. Only by expanding the boundaries can we achieve something
If life is a long movie, then everyone seems to have different story scripts from birth. Some people like to live step by step in a fixed field, straight to the preset life goals. Some people like to constantly subvert the status quo, bravely challenge themselves, and open up new realms in life through unknown exploration and trekking.
If you only have a hammer in your hand, this is your only tool. Will you see any problem that looks like a nail and want to go over and hammer it twice?
If you give A, B, C, and D one hundred thousand yuan each, A was very happy to get the money, and squandered it, and soon spent all the money. B was worried about being coveted by others, so she chose to bury the money underground. C chose to keep the money in the bank regularly, and D chose to buy real estate. As a result, ten years later, A developed the habit of excessive consumption and was already heavily in debt. B was struggling in his life and always thought that he had at least a deposit. As a result, the money had been corroded and turned into soil because it was buried underground. C's money had a profit of 50,000 yuan in ten years, plus a total of 150,000 yuan. D chose real estate investment, and the housing price increased several times in several years. D's asset income had long exceeded his work income, and he realized financial freedom early.
Only by learning to expand boundaries can you achieve something. 's motivation for growth stems from the tension between self-pursuing and social expectations. Only through continuous breakthroughs and changes can we grow, have different experiences, and obtain more lasting happiness.
3. Acknowledge failure, but don’t give up easily
As the saying goes: failure is the mother of success "". Failure is not scary, giving up is scary. If Edison gave up at that time, then the light bulb might not appear decades later. If Yue Wang Goujian gave up sleeping on firewood and tasting gall, then Yue Guo would no longer exist. It is easy to give up, and there will always be bumps and bumps on the road to success. As you go over, you will see another scenery. If you give up, you can only stay where you are, be caught up by more and more latecomers, and to develop background factors, success is really not that easy. You only have tenacious ones, even if you only make a little progress every day, you must persist.
