People may be helpless, and the biggest helplessness is powerlessness. You are not even qualified to do anything for it, not even a single move can do, let alone yelling.
Zhuangzi said: Nothing more sorrow than death of the heart, and death of a person is the second.
If the heart is dead, there will be no more sorrow. Although this seems sad, it is still not as good as the "sadness" when you encounter helplessness in your heart. It’s like the surging river, all you have is emotion.
cannot be changed, there is no way to start, and even breathing is unnecessary. It's like, Taishan collapsed before. You can't change the time, nodes, and degree of collapse.
The ancients said, "The Mount of Tai collapses in front but the color remains unchanged, and the deer rises in the left but the eyes are not instant." This is a high-level free and easy life and fearlessness in the face of danger. And when we trace the source of this sentence, it is " Mind Skills " written by Su Xun .
And Su Xun's "art of cultivating the mind" is the art of generals. Therefore, at the beginning, Mr. Su said, "To be the general, we must first cure his mind." Obviously, there are prerequisites for this kind of calm in the face of danger - for generals.
In other words, when you have a response strategy, you can have the conditions to achieve "mountain of Mount Tai collapses before it will remain unchanged." This is obviously not the most difficult, because for the general, he can have the ability to change the situation, and real powerlessness is that any action is unnecessary, just like a person who sees the collapse of Mount Tai from thousands of miles away.
Maybe someone asked, since they are thousands of miles away, what do you have to do with you?
The connection between all things cannot be measured by the distance. They are all in the universe, and no one can say that they can keep themselves alone. Just like what Voltaire says, "No snowflake is innocent when an avalanche is an avalanche."
Now, it is more appropriate to use the snowflakes in the avalanche to describe this helpless mentality. The slightly different thing is that before the avalanche, the snowflakes had a premonition of the avalanche.
But what is the meaning of premonition?
so, this kind of heartbreak is more cruel than "sadness is more than death in the heart".
No matter what you say, whether it is "Shan Tai collapsed before" or "Avalanche", people still have to look forward. Stabilizing the mind is the most important thing, and cultivating the mind has become the key.
We might as well ask ourselves a question: Who can be changed in this world and what can we change?
For the general public, it seems that no one can change it, and even oneself cannot change it. In order to get rid of a bad habit, if you fight with yourself for decades, you may not be able to decide who will win or lose!
can't say that it will change an avalanche.
Since no one can change it, then do what you can and fuck your heart within your ability to avoid disturbing mediocre people.
Of course, it is impossible not to worry about your heart outside of your ability, because only by thinking too much can you be able to adapt to key problems when encountering them.
This obviously involves two issues: one is worrying and the other is ability.
This is like the two sides of contradictory and opposite . If you worry too much, you will easily get hurt. If you don’t worry, you will not be able to improve your abilities. To cultivate the mind means to achieve a balance between the two.
If you don’t cultivate your mind, you may become a snowflake in an avalanche one day; if you cultivate your mind, you can really achieve “the mountains of Mount Tai collapse before the color remains unchanged” one day.
Of course, being able to reach this level is obviously not just because of a good attitude, but also because of a good attitude. Behind this, there must be a set of problem-solving skills as a backing. After countless collapses of Mount Tai were drilled and deduced, you will naturally not panic when encountering problems and respond calmly.
Good mentality comes from seeing big scenes, dealing with big scenes, rich experience, scientific prospects, and what is reflected in the world is "not afraid of danger".
As stated in " University ": From the emperor to the common people, all people are based on self-cultivation.
self-cultivation not only requires one to be fearless in the face of danger, but also to be “not glancing at the window and seeing the way of heaven”, and to know how to prepare for the future and prevent problems before they happen. In addition, you must also cultivate "no worries in mind", and also cultivate " and help the world". This is difficult, but with care, it should be achieved.
