text丨Tao Xiaojing
The spring breeze is not as good as you, Xiaojing is here, waiting for you!
-01-
This life is like climbing one mountain after another. You must not only stand on the top to see the most beautiful scenery in the world, but also fall into a deep trough and taste the flavors of the world.
This is how life is, ups and downs, and it goes back and forth.
Although each of us wants to stand at the top forever, there are always unsatisfactory times in life, and no matter who it is, there may be a day when it falls to the bottom.
This is actually very normal. Everyone has to experience this kind of thing before they can truly grow.
However, many people cannot accept the fact that they are in a low point. Some people choose to escape, while others choose to give up on themselves.
Whether it is escaping or giving up on oneself, they are pushing their lives to a darker abyss. Those who do this are cowardly and incompetent.
In life, it is impossible to have no setbacks. It is not scary to be in a low point. It is scary to give up on yourself.
Although it is difficult to endure the days of being in a low point, if you don’t grit your teeth and persevere, how can you go to your bright future?
-02-
I remember someone said this: "People in low places look like redemption."
Indeed, in order to get out of the low places as soon as possible, many people will regard the people around them as their life-saving straws, and then place high hopes on them, hoping that they can help themselves.
It turns out that if you want to turn the trough from the wind, you can only rely on yourself.
If you place all your hopes on others, you will be disappointed.
If you want to get out of the trough completely, you need to do two things well: one is to accumulate strength and wait for the opportunity, and the other is to stay away from some people.
You should know that not everyone can save you from the sea of fire, and some people will pull you into a deeper abyss.
If you don’t want to stay in a low point, I hope you can understand that when people are in a low point, you should stay away from some people.
-03-
Stay away from people who are not doing their jobs
There are some people around everyone who are not doing their jobs. They seem to live a good life, but in fact, their lives are hopeless.
When interacting with such people, you will be subtly influenced by them and gradually become unemployed.
You are clearly in a low point, but you are still so unemployed, and you will never have a chance to turn things around.
If you want to get out of the trough, you need to put in more effort and work harder, rather than not doing your job properly all day.
In order to prevent yourself from being affected, you must draw a clear line with those who are not doing their jobs. Stay away from them as soon as possible and do your own things steadily, and you will have a chance to turn things around.
Don’t always envy people who are not doing their jobs. No matter how good they live, they will never reach the peak of their lives. Only those who work hard can have the opportunity to change their destiny.
Stay away from people who are unwilling to be enterprising
The old saying goes: "Water flows to the lower part, and people walk to the higher part." Each of us finally came to this world, and naturally we have to go to a higher place to see more beautiful scenery.
However, some people are not enterprising. They are content with their current life and never thought of continuing to struggle. Although people like
can live well, they have no meaning in life. When dating such people, you will sooner or later become unmotivated.
When people are in a trough, it is best not to get too close to such people, because only by keeping a distance can you not be affected by them.
The best way to change your destiny is to keep making progress and keep moving forward. If you are influenced by people who are not enterprising, you may be difficult to turn your back in this life.
People cannot stand still, and they cannot just stay calm in the status quo. If you want to change your destiny, stay away from those who are unwilling to make progress.
Stay away from pessimistic and negative people
Life is like a mentality. People with a good attitude can see the rainbow even when they are in a low position; people with a bad attitude can only see the darkness in front of them even if they are at the high position.
The impact of mentality on a person is too great. If a person always has a pessimistic and negative attitude, he is destined to be able to live his life in a daze in the trough.
mentality also has a great impact on people around you. A person with a bad mentality will inevitably affect the people around you and make everyone negative.
If you date someone like this, even if your mentality is very sunny, you will be assimilated sooner or later.
When you are in a low point, you'd better stay away from pessimistic and negative people and face the current life with a positive attitude, so that you won't be depressed all the time.
People are in a low point, it is necessary to adjust their mentality. Learn to use a good mentality to meet the challenges brought by fate. There will always be a day when you can clear the clouds and see the light.
-04-
No one’s life is smooth sailing. Whether it is falling from the cloud or you are in a low point, it is actually a test of fate on you.
If you are depressed and unable to recover, or even interact with some people who are not doing their jobs, are not enterprising, pessimistic and negative all day long, then you will have no hope in your life.
is not scary at a low point. This is just a small hurdle on the road of life. Why is it so pessimistic?
Even if you haven’t seen any hope, you shouldn’t give up easily. Keep moving forward and keep working hard, everything will always be fine.
I hope you can remember that when people are in a low point, stay away from some people. Walk your own path well and don’t be influenced by others.
You must believe that the sun always survives all the sufferings in front of you after the storm, and in the end what you get is what you want.
