1. "In fact, others are not bad." Because of this sentence, we tolerate many people and things in life that should not be tolerated.
2. When you look down from the 80th floor, it is full of beautiful scenery, but when you look down from the 2nd floor, it is full of garbage. If people don’t have a height, they will see all problems. If people don’t have a pattern, they will see all trivial things.
3. After meeting all kinds of people, you know that there will be no one in the world who will treat you with all your heart and soul, no one will trust you unconditionally, and no one will always be nice to you. You should have understood that it will be black people, and life will change so long, and you can only rely on yourself and have no other choice.
4. A person can do many stupid things in his life, but the two stupidest things are: refuse to read and ignore the soul; refuse to exercise and ignore health.
5. Don’t get entangled in awkward things. If you get entangled for a long time, you will become annoyed, painful, emedy, tired, hurt, and heartbroken. In fact, in the end, you are not just not following the matter, but you are not going against yourself.
6. When I was a child, I hoped that I would grow up soon. When I grew up, I found that I had lost my childhood. When I was single, I began to envy the sweetness of my lover, and when I was in love, I miss the freedom when I was single. Many things always feel beautiful when they are not given, and only after they get them will they begin to understand: "We are losing at the same time as we get them."
7. The road is chosen by ourselves, so even if we fall and get hurt in the future, we must learn to bear it ourselves and heal our own injuries. We are all like this and learn to grow up.
8. Life is not for compromise. The more you retreat, the more limited the room you can breathe. Life is not for settlement. The humble you act, the further away some happy things will be from you.
9. Time is like a sieve, constantly filtering the people around you. Only after spending time together and having experienced more things, will you know who can stay in life and who can gradually move away. Life is precious. Cherish those people who can never fall off the sieve.
10. How many people do you know and how many friends you have are completely different. It's like how much money you've seen is and how much money you really have.
11. Cherish the happiness around you, appreciate your own possession, let go of what you can’t bear to you, take it lightly if you can’t afford to hurt, throw it away if you can’t figure it out, and heal what you can’t hate. Life is not easy, and life is not long, so why bother with unnecessary worries, yourself, and hurt the years.
12. If you are always with happy people, you can share happiness; if you are always with honest people, you can keep your promises; if you are always with grateful people, you will get better and better; if you are always with complaining people, you will be a resentful woman. The decision of how to choose in life is in your own hands and has nothing to do with others.
13. The most important thing for adults to get along well is: don’t ask others for their own living habits.
14. Life is a road, and the longer life is, the longer the road is. The deeper life is, the wider the road is. We often cannot choose the length of our life, but we can choose the depth of our life. We cannot predict the length of the road, but we can widen the width of the road.
15. Don’t be too good to someone, because one day you will find that being good to someone will get used to it over time, and then take all this as a matter of course. In fact, you can be so stupid that you ignore the rewards at all costs, but reality always makes people feel cold. In fact, you clearly know that the most humble is just love, and the most cold is the heart of the people.
16. Don’t be unable to get along with villains because they can’t get along with them; don’t be able to get along with society because you will not get along with you; don’t be able to get along with yourself, because everything will pass; don’t be able to get along with the past because it has passed; don’t be able to get along with reality because you still have to get along with you.
17. Life is short. Don’t live too tiring and can’t squeeze into the world. Don’t force yourself. It’s difficult to make others feel bad. Don’t force yourself to do things that cannot be done. Change your thinking may result twice as much with half the effort. Don’t force yourself to take things that cannot be obtained, even if you get them temporarily, you will lose them.
18. Only those who do not have happiness can show off their happiness. How can people who are so happy have no time to show off their happiness? Only those who don’t have money will show off their wealth, while those who are really rich will pretend to be poor. Only those who lack love will show their love every day, and those who truly love have already gotten married and had children. People who are weak in their hearts should always praise themselves for their kindness, and those who are truly kind are all known to themselves without any need to brag about it. Therefore, you can only expose whatever you lack. Good days are not revealed, but are passed on.
19. You are still very young. In the future, you will meet many people, experience many things, gain a lot, and lose a lot, but no matter what, there are two things that you must never throw away. One is called conscience and the other is called ideal.
20. Some people you have seen for a lifetime but ignored for a lifetime. Some people you only looked at once but affected your life. Some people are happy for you enthusiastically but are neglected by you. Some people let you have short-term happiness but get the chain of your thoughts. Some people have an unintentional expression but become an eternal longing. This is life.
21. Happiness is used for feeling, not for comparison. Life is for management, not for calculating. Emotions are for maintenance, not for testing. Lovers are used to love, not to hurt. Money is used to pay, not to measure. Lies are used to break the ground, not to be embellished. Trust is used to precipitate, not to challenge.
