Life is short, passing by quickly, things are impermanent, and it is difficult to budget. Since you are alive, be happy and do not ask the following six questions to stay away from worries and live a better life.
As the saying goes:
"There is nothing in the world, and people are disturbing themselves."
Many troubles in life are imposed on yourself.
Since you come here, you can rest assured. You don’t have to worry about living, but you need to be relaxed and at ease.
Smart people, for the rest of their lives, don’t ask!
Fate, no matter what the ending,
Dong Qing said:
"In a sense, everything in the world is encountering. When cold meets warmth, there will be rain; when winter meets spring, there will be years; when heaven meets earth, there will be eternity; when people meet people, there will be life."
Every encounter and separation is the coincidence of cause and effect.
Fate comes, no one can stop it; fate goes away, no one can keep it.
Impermanence and cause and effect, come and go, gather and disperse, everything is destined.
It is adaptable to fate and can be content with the circumstances. Whether it is regret or regret, it is all God's will to do anything.
In the future, you don’t seek the result or ask for the ending. Being responsible for fate comes, and being responsible for fate goes with the fate. This is the best way to live.
work hard, don't ask for rewards
Sanmao said:
"Things you deliberately look for are often not found. Everything in the world has its time."
In this world, no one has a smooth and perfect life.
Some things will not be rewarded if they work hard; some people will not be rewarded if they give their efforts.
Being obsessed with something for too long will make you tired; being obsessed with a relationship for too long will make you tired.
is yours, after all, it is yours, not yours, and no matter how hard you ask for it, you won’t get it.
What we can do is nothing more than work hard on the cause and follow the consequences.
Regarding hard work and dedication, we don’t want to be as satisfactory as we wish.
As people often say, since you have chosen the distance, you will only care about wind and rain.
You will slowly discover: In the world, there are fewer luck in everything going well, and more are natural surprises.
farewell, no matter how long it takes to return
Li Shutong said:
"Life is a rare gathering, only there are many separations."
The older you grow, the more you understand: reunion is an accident, and separation is the norm.
There is no banquet that never ends, and there is no separation in life that never suffers.
No matter how close the relationship is, it can only be with you for a while, and few people can accompany you for the rest of their lives.
Even if you meet up with your lover until you are old, there will always be someone leaving first.
As the saying goes: Come is accidental, go is inevitable, do your best and let it go.
When you leave, it is better to care about each other; when you say goodbye, it is better to smile and bless you.
No matter how long you return, no matter day or night, come and go, go as you like, distance and distance, and be close and distant.
If you come, I will be happy, and if you leave, I will take care of it. This is the most comfortable relationship.
Friends, do not ask about their origin
"Wen Zhongzi·Li and Music" says:
"For profit, intersect, disperse when profit is exhausted; for power, conquer when power is defeated, abandon when power is lost; for emotion, intersect, and emotional breaks, hurt when emotion is broken; only by heart can we achieve long-term long-term."
When making friends, it is not about background, but about heart.
Everyone gathers together because of fate, respects talent, loyal to character, and longs for sincerity.
I am soaring, you don’t stick to it; you are smooth sailing, I don’t jealous.
I am poor and you don’t leave; you fall into a trough, I don’t laugh at you.
There is no hypocrisy between each other, only sincerity, no contempt, only respect.
As the saying goes:
"Time knows people, but it is hard to know your heart."
Among good friends, they do not ask whether they are true or not.
After all, there are false friendships everywhere, but sincere friends are hard to find.
True friends two or three have surpassed thousands of friends who nodded, cherish them all.
Family, don't ask whether it is right or wrong
As the saying goes:
There are no two identical leaves in the world.
Everyone has different backgrounds and experiences, and their views and cognitions are also different.
A family lives together, and there will inevitably be various differences.
If you have to fight for right or wrong in everything, it will only be a win and a loss of love.
You should know that home is not a place to be reasonable, but a harbor to be loved.
Really smart people never regard their family as a "debate field".
What is more important than right or wrong is that you understand me, I tolerate you, and get along well.
Instead of arguing endlessly, it is better to learn to understand and be grateful.
Only by giving in small things, taking a step back from big things, not arguing or caring about them can you be warm and harmonious.
In this life, no matter how you are in the next life,
Yu Guangzhong said a sentence:
"Next time you pass by, there is no self in the world."
In this life, people can only live for a lifetime and cannot start over.
full calculations, but in a hurry, more than 30,000 days, it really doesn't take long.
Many things, many people, even if we regret it, cannot go back.
The future is long and ultimately unfair to the impermanence of the world.
The debts owed in this life may not be able to pay them back in the next life.
So, while your youth is still there, don’t waste your time; while time is not old, cherish it.
Cherish your feelings and don’t let them down; cherish your time and don’t squander;
Cherish your health and don’t overdraw; cherish your life and don’t waste it.
Living this life well, not asking about the next life is the most advanced way of living.
