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Depending with others is a very profound homework. Some people may not understand the law throughout their lives.
They often don’t have a clear understanding of how gentlemen and villains should be distinguished in their circle of friends. So after the damage occurs, it still realizes it later.
In fact, if you pay attention, you will find that those villains usually have some different behaviors when dealing with people.
In real life, people who often talk about three sentences are mostly kind-hearted and unkind. No matter who they are, don’t have a deep friendship.
1: Slandering others
In our circle of friends, we often see such a kind of people who always secretly tell you bad things about others, or scandals that others don’t want to spread. After
is finished, you will usually say with a sense of justice: Don’t tell others.
Maybe you really think he is kind-hearted and just want you to know so much gossip, but for the reputation of those gossip protagonists, you deliberately remind you not to spread it.
If you really think so, I have to say that you are really too simple.
He must have told you more than just the same gossip, and he may have said the same advice in one day, and you are just one of his many people.
A villain who likes to secretly slander others is not as kind as he shows. If you believe him, you will lose.
What's more terrifying is that maybe he got close to you and told others your secret in the same way, and you are also the protagonist of his gossip sharing time and time again, but you are kept in the dark...
2: Words to attack others
Gentlemen never talk about words to attack others. Their behavior of people will make people feel like spring breeze and make people feel very warm.
But those who are kind-hearted and unkind like to do the most is to attack others. They usually put a "for your own good" hat on their behavior and then attack and hurt you. The true face of people like
is usually difficult to find, because some people with simple minds can easily believe what such people say hypocritical things.
Then, without knowing it, you have absorbed the spiritual pua method you imparted by the other party, so that even if you achieve good results, you will continue to doubt your abilities under his influence.
If you interact with such people, unless you awaken yourself, your life will slowly decline under his influence.
3: Stimulating others' words
When life is in a trough, when we encounter damage and blows, the warm and powerful hug we need is a heartwarming and encouraging word.
People with kind hearts will give gentle comfort to those in the trough at the right moment. But people with dark hearts will only say some stimulating words and sprinkle salt into other people's wounds without any scruples.
No matter how careless he is on the surface, he cannot hide the fact that he adds fuel to others. However, his methods are usually more secret, and it is not that the parties involved are usually difficult to see.
But the party involved was really offended and hurt. It is estimated that only the party involved can discover his true face. If his real purpose is exposed, he will put himself in the position of a victim.
In fact, he is not pitiful. They are synonymous with viciousness. If you are close friends with such people, you are afraid that you will experience hurt and pain every day.
at the end:
People who often talk about the above three sentences are mostly kind-hearted and unwilling. Don’t trust them easily and keep a distance from them so that your life will be more comfortable and comfortable.
Otherwise, the closer you get, the easier it is to be hurt by it, which is not worth the loss.
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